#80 - Tina Horn / Understanding kink, fetish and pleasure

On this week’s episode of the podcast, Tim had the opportunity to talk with Tina Horn – a writer, educatrix, and media-maker. She is the author of Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink (Hachette), a book based on her long-running indie fetish podcast. Tina is the creator/writer of the sci-fi sex-rebel comic book series Safe Sex /SfSx, and the cult detective thriller Deprog; she was also the host/cowriter of the phone sex podcast Operator (Wondery). Her reporting on sexual subcultures has appeared in Rolling Stone, Playboy, Hazlitt, Glamour, Jezebel and elsewhere; she is the author of two other nonfiction books and has contributed to numerous anthologies including We Too: Essays on Sex Work and Survival, which she also coedited. Tina has lectured on adult entertainment politics and queer BDSM identities at universities and community centres all over North America, and works as an on-set consultant for theatre, film, and television including the dominatrix scenes of Pose. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, an AVN nominee, the recipient of two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence.  Find Tina here: https://www.instagram.com/tinahornsass/?hl=en Or at her website: https://tinahorn.net/ Timestamps  00:00 – Intro 01:50 – What is a kink?  05:20 – The influence of the internet on our sexual behaviours 07:06 – How would you define rough sex? 08:49 – Our relationship with obsession 14:00 – Connecting to others through sexuality  15:59 – How to bring your desires and fantasies to life 22:02 – Different kinds of foot fetishes 26:50 – Embracing pleasure 29:13 – Places we can learn from  32:36 – Learning about sex from observation and conversations 34:08 – Why are people into that? The cultural investigation of kink.  35:30 – Conclusion  -----------------  Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available at https://www.sexinspace.com/books to download or buy.  Follow us here: https://www.instagram.com/sexinspacedotcom https://www.tiktok.com/@sexinspacedotcom https://www.facebook.com/sexinspacedotcom https://www.youtube.com/@sexinspace For more info, check out our website at: https://www.sexinspace.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.