818 | Raising the Floor Before Raising the Bar

In this episode, I recount my experience speaking at the Manifest Her event, where I participated in a wealth panel. This opportunity sparked a significant realization about the disconnect between our lofty goals and our self-belief. I emphasize the necessity of raising our "floor"—the foundation of our self-worth and belief in our capabilities—before we can effectively reach higher goals. I discuss how failing to address this gap can lead to a cycle of self-sabotage, where unmet goals diminish our self-esteem even further. I encourage listeners to define their success and assess whether they have the belief and readiness to achieve their goals. By doing so, we can identify the steps needed to build our self-worth and confidence. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Goal Setting 00:01:00 - The Disconnect in Goal Setting 00:02:30 - Raising the Floor vs. Raising the Bar 00:04:50 - The Importance of Self-Belief 00:06:30 - Defining Your Success 00:08:00 - Understanding Your Current Floor 00:10:00 - Personal Story: Navigating Loss and Contraction 00:12:30 - Rewiring Your Subconscious Mind 00:14:00 - Building a Strong Foundation 00:16:30 - Playing Bigger and Embracing Capability Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download "You Are Supported" Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the "Follow" button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG click HERESubscribe on YouTube click HERE Mentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp