835 | The Truth About the In-Between Phases

In this episode, I explore identity and its crucial role in personal growth and transformation. I share that transitioning to a new identity can be uncomfortable and chaotic. It's normal to feel like you're in a state of flux, especially when you're not quite who you used to be, nor fully who you're becoming. I share my experiences of navigating this in-between phase, particularly in my journey toward publishing books. This process started as an idea and has required significant effort and adaptation. Throughout the episode, I highlight the importance of language and mindset. I discuss how our subconscious mind prefers familiarity and safety, often resisting change even when necessary for growth. This resistance can manifest as self-doubt and imposter syndrome, creating a tug-of-war between our past and future selves. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Athlete Mindset 00:02:00 - Navigating Identity Shifts 00:03:30 - The Chaos of Change 00:05:00 - The Importance of Language 00:06:30 - Familiarity vs. Growth 00:08:00 - The Tug of War 00:09:30 - Moving Houses Metaphor 00:10:30 - Reframing Discomfort 00:12:00 - Visualizing Your Future Self 00:13:30 - Recognizing Old Identities 00:15:00 - The In-Between Phase 00:16:30 - Commitment to Growth 00:18:00 - Invitation to Join Outspoken Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download "You Are Supported" Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the "Follow" button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG click HERESubscribe on YouTube click HERE Mentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp