84. Why Nagging Never Works (& What It Really Takes To Change A Loved One)

If you love someone - whether it’s a spouse, child, relative or friend, you want the best for them. And that is why one of the most trying challenges you can face in life is watching a loved one continue to journey down a path you believe is wrong or harmful, while seemingly ignoring your best attempts to help them change direction.  Over time, your desire to help soon turns into frustration and you find yourself constantly faultfinding, complaining and harshly criticising them. Of course, this only escalates the tension in the relationship and further alienates your loved one from the help you are desperate to give. Nagging never works. In fact, not only does it not achieve the results you want, it is damaging to you, your loved one and your relationship. In this episode, Olawunmi teaches a better and more effective way to influence and inspire a person to change their life.