856 | What You Ask For Won't Show Up How You Expect

In this episode, I am sharing about the unexpected ways in which our desires manifest. I want to keep it real and share my insights on how asking the universe for something big often leads to challenges and discomfort rather than immediate fulfillment. I begin by discussing the concept of expansion and contraction, emphasizing that when we seek growth, whether it's in our personal lives, careers, or finances, we often encounter obstacles that feel like setbacks. I share my own journey of asking for expansion this year, only to face a series of personal and professional challenges that left me feeling like I was experiencing the opposite of what I desired. In one example, I share how my husband's injury during a crucial competition I illustrate how life can throw us curveballs just when we think we're on the right path. I reflect on the emotional turmoil that comes with these experiences and how they serve as lessons to help us grow into the versions of ourselves that can truly hold our dreams. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Nature of Asking for Growth 00:02:00 - Lessons vs. Dreams: The Reality of Expansion 00:04:00 - Recognizing Contraction as Evidence of Growth 00:05:00 - Reframing Your Perspective on Challenges 00:06:00 - Handling Abundance and Contraction 00:07:00 - The Importance of Trusting the Process 00:08:00 - Identifying What You Asked For This Year 00:09:00 - The Role of Your Subconscious Mind 00:10:00 - Rewiring Your Beliefs Through Consistency 00:11:00 - Emotional Regulation Techniques 00:12:00 - Leadership in Difficult Times 00:13:00 - The Universe is Preparing You 00:14:00 - Embracing Challenges as Part of Growth Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download "You Are Supported" Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) HERE Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program HERE. Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the "Follow" button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG click HERESubscribe on YouTube click HEREMentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp