86. The Good Girl Lie: Unlearning Selflessness and Reclaiming Your God-Given Identity | Live Brighter EP 86

Have you been taught that being selfless means silencing your voice? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, we're exploring the emotional and spiritual cost many Christian women face when they've been raised to prioritize others at the expense of their own identity and well-being. I'll be diving into my personal story—how traditional belief systems shaped my view of womanhood, and how I began the journey of questioning, unlearning, and reclaiming my voice. We'll look at how internalized messages around servanthood and sacrifice can create emotional disconnection, suppress ambition, and lead to chronic guilt or self-abandonment. This conversation is about more than just personal growth—it's about spiritual healing, emotional liberation, and learning to honor the God-given light within you. ✨ Ready to break free from limiting beliefs and live more fully in your truth? Tune in for encouragement, insight, and empowering steps to let go of guilt, rediscover your worth, and live brighter from the inside out.   For more information and FREE STUFF: https://www.livebrighter.info/ Get the free Barf Plan HERE - https://www.livebrighter.info/about-3 For free affirmations: https://forms.wix.com/92afa3c4-cdce-4001-8b89-7d69785eeab9:0b817886-a600-4dee-9177-f0847ad749cc Get the Unravel Notebook Here: https://www.amazon.com/Unravel-Notebook-Tara-Wolfe-Schaan/dp/B0CTPDWJ8L/ref=sr_1_1?crid=8HEZHNF2F962&keywords=unravel+notebook%2C+schaan&qid=1707165877&sprefix=unravel+notebook%2C+schaan%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1   PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS: 00:39 The struggles of Christian Women 01:59 Unpacking Societal Beliefs and their impact 03:23 Result of our Christian Belief Systems 06:11 Historical Context and the role of women 08:59 Embracing Change: Updating Beliefs and Stories 11:51 Reflection on Life and Regrets   Follow us on our Socials!  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livebrighterwithtara/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Live-Brighter-with-Tara/61552844352218/ Listen on apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/live-brighter-with-tara/id1706176973 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3XRuiEdnUyrHjXi0kA5F8H Grow 1% each day, I believe in you! Thank you for listening!     #LiveBrighterWithTara #ChristianWomenEmpowerment #FaithAndMentalHealth #ReligiousTraumaHealing #BreakFreeFromPeoplePleasing #EmotionalHealing #SpiritualHealing #ChristianPodcast #SelfWorth #WomenOfFaith #DeconstructingFaith #HealingFromReligiousTrauma #LetYourLightShine #MentalHealthAndFaith #FaithOverFear