86: The REAL Reason You're Struggling with Self-Care as a High Achiever

In today’s episodes we get real with Hazel Harve from Carefree Black Girl about the challenges high achievers face when relationships fall apart. Together, we unpack why losing friends is sometimes part of the journey, how hustle culture adds to the strain, and what it takes to rebuild balance in both your personal and professional life. We also cover the myths behind hustle culture, the importance of self-care, and practical tools to help you feel more balanced without compromising on your ambitions. What You’ll Learn: Why high achievers often lose friends while climbing toward success The emotional impact of ambition on relationships and self-care How to prioritize both meaningful connections and personal goals Practical ways to let go of toxic relationships and embrace healing Why hustle culture is hurting more than helping high achievers How to redefine productivity and prioritize self-care Simple strategies to incorporate grace into your daily routines The power of reflecting on setbacks and using them as tools for growth Key Moments: Listener Question: Handling guilt over losing friendships while staying ambitious (1:00) Hazel’s personal story of heartbreak and self-reflection (10:00) How to set boundaries with hustle culture to avoid burnout (15:00) Tools for rebuilding self-care and grace after emotional setbacks (25:00) Check out Episode 84: The White Space Method Connect with Hazel: Instagram/TikTok: @HazelHarve Podcast: Carefree Black Girl (available on Spotify, Apple, and Revolt Podcast Network) Take the Boss Babe Archetype Test to discover your unique self-care style at BossBabeReset.com/test! Designed for high-achieving corporate women and female entrepreneurs, this podcast tackles the pressures of hustle culture, work anxiety, and burnout by sharing practical self-care and productivity strategies, helping you combat overworking and thrive in your career with balance and resilience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Ready to build the business that replaces your 9-to-5? Join us inside the Clocked Out Collective at start.clockedout.media.Free 5-Minute TrainingEvery woman I know who successfully built a business while working a 9-to-5 followed the same four steps — and almost all of them tried to skip step one.So I created a free 5-minute training specifically for the woman who is still clocking into work every day while trying to build something bigger on the side.➡️ Watch the free training here👀 Join the Clocked Out Collective ClockedOUT is a business and productivity podcast for the high-achieving female entrepreneur building a side hustle while working a 9-to-5. Each week we deliver business building tips, work-life balance and self-care strategies, and real talk on hustle culture so you can grow your business, hit new revenue milestones, and beat burnout while still on payroll.Follow us on Instagram: @clockedout.media