88. Outsourcing Violence Was a Mistake - With Martijn Bos

In this episode, I sit down with Martin Bos to explore the intersection of embodiment, self-defense, and modern masculinity. We discuss why many people have lost touch with boundaries and physical reality, and how true confidence begins in the body—not just the mind. Martin shares his journey from being bullied as a child to training special forces and coaching civilians, and how his work has evolved beyond technique into embodied awareness and presence. We explore how posture, attention, and nervous system regulation shape both safety and behaviour. We also get into pride, ego, and why so many conflicts escalate unnecessarily, along with how men can develop the capacity for force without being controlled by it. ----------------------------------------------- See the Feral Philosophy YouTube channel HERE  Support the Feral Philosophy mission by donating through Crowdfunder  Want to become a certified embodiment coach? More details about CEC Join Mark for in-person workshops