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EPISODE · Apr 13, 2026 · 18 MIN

88: You’re Not Confused - You’re Avoiding the Truth

from You Have the Power - The Road to Truth, Freedom and Real Connection · host Darla Ridilla

You’re not confused about him.You’re over-processing inconsistency.You keep replaying conversations.Trying to figure out what you did wrong.Trying to get back to how it felt in the beginning.But the reality is...You’re not trying to understand him.You’re trying to avoid what his behavior is already showing you. And as long as you stay in your head…you don’t have to make a decision.This is where rumination keeps you stuck.In Part 2 of this series, we break down the difference between rumination and discernment - not as a concept, but in real life.What it actually looks like to: stop questioning yourself  start observing behavior  and make decisions based on truth instead of potential Because emotionally unavailable men create confusion.Emotionally willing men create clarity.And the woman you’re becoming?She doesn’t sit in confusion.She observes.She decides.She moves.If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start trusting yourself…this is where that begins.Connect with Darla Ridilla: 🌐 Learn more about podcast mentoring and my 30-day podcast launch program: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/shareyourvoiceFree Course - You Have Something to Say: The 3 Shifts That Help You Stop Overthinking and Start Your Podcast - https://youtu.be/IcXzJDGDUtkWebsite: https://www.highvaluewoman.infoSign up for mailing list: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/connectFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7wLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/Send me an email: [email protected]

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You’re not confused about him. You’re over-processing inconsistency. You keep replaying conversations. Trying to figure out what you did wrong. Trying to get back to how it felt in the beginning. But the reality is... You’re not trying to understand him. You’re trying to avoid what his behavior is already showing you. And as long as you stay in your head… you don’t have to make a decision. This is where rumination keeps you stuck. In Part 2 of this series, we break down the difference b...

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