89. There are Worse Things than being Alone

Here's the deal. I know how loneliness feels. It can really suck, I get it. But, ya know what else is worse? Being in a lousy relationship or even worse, an abusive one. Sometimes once we're freshly out of that relationship, the sting of loneliness hits us hard at first and literally blinds our memory of how bad it was in the relationship. * We start freaking out and want to either get back into said relationship or jump into another one straight quick. Desire to be with someone can get so out of wack that it actually screws up our chances. Have you ever wanted something so badly that it just couldn't work?! Weird that sometimes when we want something too bad, it just slips through our fingers. * In this week's podcast I take a look at how we can change our focus from wanting a partner and why we want one into who we want to become for OURSELVES! There's SO much good to do, so much fun to be a part of, and so much life to live! * And to quote Madea, "I'd rather be in a corner with a puppy and a goldfish and be happy than to be sitting around with somebody in my house and I'm wondering what the hell they there for." * Check out link to podcast in my BIO. Episode 89.