896 | The Difference Between Feeling Numb and Unbothered

In this episode, I explore the concept of being unbothered vs feeling numb. Being unbothered involves feeling emotions without being controlled by them. I recount my journey over the past couple of years, particularly the challenges I've faced, including navigating past stories of teen substance abuse and personal turmoil. Through these experiences, I have learned to strengthen my boundaries and prioritize self-care, allowing me to listen to my needs rather than numb them. I pose the question: Are you numb or unbothered? I explain the characteristics of both states, highlighting that numbness is a disconnection from our emotions, while being unbothered is about being present and regulated. I share actionable tools for listeners to connect with their emotions, encouraging them to recognize and process feelings without judgment. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction: A Message for the Strong and Numb 00:01:00 - The Burden of Strength: Numbness vs. Emotion 00:02:30 - Childhood Conditioning: The Armour We Wear 00:04:00 - Understanding Numbness: A Survival Strategy 00:05:30 - The Shift: From Numb to Unbothered 00:07:00 - Navigating Challenges: Clarity in Chaos 00:08:30 - Defining Numbness: Disconnection from Self 00:10:00 - The Accumulation of Unprocessed Emotions 00:11:30 - The Cost of Numbness: Blocking Joy and Gratitude 00:13:00 - Embracing Unbothered: Regulation and Response 00:14:30 - Listening to Emotions: A New Approach 00:17:30 - The Power of Positive Intention in Emotions 00:19:00 - Staying Present: The Art of Being Unbothered Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download "You Are Supported" Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in Oct 2025 in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the "Follow" button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE Mentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp