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EPISODE · Aug 22, 2025 · 15 MIN

898 | How to Write Your Book from the Optimal State

from Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I discuss the everyday struggles many authors face, such as fear of judgment from family and friends, and the realization that we cannot control how others perceive our words. Our internal representation of the world shapes our responses, and I share personal anecdotes to illustrate how our states can influence our reactions to others. Instead of focusing on the strategy first, it is essential to get into the right state of mind, energy, and nervous system regulation before writing. Our subconscious mind, which governs 95% of our actions, responds to feelings of safety rather than willpower. This means that before we can write authentically, we must ensure our nervous system is regulated and grounded, and we are clear about the intention as to why we are being called to write and share our story. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Writing Your Book 00:01:00 - The Importance of State in Writing 00:02:00 - Navigating Vulnerability in Storytelling 00:03:00 - The Role of the Subconscious Mind in Writing 00:04:00 - Releasing Layers Before Writing 00:05:00 - In It vs. On It: Writing Perspectives 00:06:00 - Creating an Optimal Writing State 00:07:00 - Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt 00:08:00 - Techniques for Anchoring into Safety 00:09:00 - Embracing Your Calling to Write 00:10:00 - The Power of Groundedness in Writing 00:11:00 - The Write Your Damn Book Digital Program 00:12:00 - The Impact of Sharing Your Story Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Meet me at the Heart-Wired CEO LIVE Event on November 7th & 8th. Grab your tickets HERE and save $260!! Download "You Are Supported" Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in Oct 2025 in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the "Follow" button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE Mentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp

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