#9: How to spot red flags early and stop toxic relationships before they start

In this episode, I’m diving deep into one of the most important conversations we can have - how to avoid getting caught in toxic relationship patterns before they even begin. I’m sharing practical tools and insights to help you recognise early red flags, set strong boundaries, and trust your intuition when something feels off. If you’ve ever found yourself repeating unhealthy relationship cycles, this episode is your roadmap to breaking free.I also talk about the deeper inner work that sets the foundation for healthy love - like understanding your core values, building self-trust, and surrounding yourself with people who model respect and care. Whether you’re dating, healing, or simply learning to love yourself better, this one’s packed with the clarity and encouragement you need to move forward with confidence.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:[0:00] - Why avoiding toxic relationships starts before they begin[2:23] - The most overlooked red flags - and how to spot them early[5:38] - Boundaries 101: What they are, why they matter, and how to hold them[8:53] - How self-work is the secret to building healthier dynamics[10:51] - Trusting your gut: Your intuition is smarter than you think[24:14] - Why growth often feels uncomfortable - but is always worth it[26:22] - A powerful reminder to honour yourself and your healing journeyLINKS & RESOURCESConnect with me on Instagram hereBook a connection call with me hereDon’t forget to follow, rate, and review Because I Love Myself First - and share it with someone who needs to hear this message today.Scandinavianz - happydaysCreative Commons - Attribution 3.0 Unported (CC BY 3.0)Free Download: hypeddit.com/scandinavianz/happydays