9: William Gupta | Interracial Dating

Girls Chase author William Gupta talks race and dating with Varoon Raja. Namely, how big a role does race play, what are the stumbling blocks different racial minorities run into, and how can men of minority backgrounds succeed with all types of women? Selected topics of conversation… • Interracial dating in places where this is common vs. place where it’s not (3:56) • William’s thoughts on ‘race as a sticking point’ (5:12) • William’s own journey improving with women (8:07) • Did the media or experiences in different cities impact William? (9:21) • Why online dating is difficult for interracial dating (11:14) • Men who idealize/fantasize about certain kinds of girls only (12:26) • Why men use excuses interacting with girls of other races (14:21) • How does victim mentality show up and what are the ramifications (15:12) • Race-related self-fulfilling prophecies (16:20) • Why Indian men so often suck with women (16:50) • How brown men often put advanced game before fundamentals (18:16) • Getting caught in hypothetical “I won’t try because I won’t win” (18:59) • Problems black guys run into with game (19:49) • Suggestions for how black guys can avoid over-touching (21:49) • What Asian guys who do well and date out of their race do (22:16) • How hanging out with other races/cultures helps you date interracially (24:07) • Why you have to relate to her culture to date her (25:25) • Adjusting your appearance to blend in with her culture (26:11) • What changed for William when he shaved his head (27:20) • What a woman thinks about when a man of another race approaches her (28:59) • The taboo of dating ‘off-limits’ men (30:16) • How women backwards rationalize their attraction after the fact (30:52) • The importance of knowing you are attractive (31:52) • Being the first guy of a race a girl’s ever been with (32:40) • How do you commit to getting better and improving with girls (32:59) • When William realized it was not as easy for white guys as he’d thought (36:01) • The desire to stay exactly the same yet magically get better results (36:44) • Learning to be unfazed by rejection (37:29) • Why to compare yourself with yourself instead of others (41:58) Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-9-william-gupta LEARN SOMETHING GOOD? SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW! If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review. This helps us reach more ears, and casts your vote for “Yes! Make more episodes!”