#90: 💖 Fake Confidence vs. Real Confidence
from Messy on Purpose Hosted by Fylisha Kruse
In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the difference between fake confidence and real confidence—and why the two can look very similar from the outside. They talk about how some people show up bold, loud, and untouchable online, but are completely different in person. Is it confidence? Is it performance? Or is it just a mask people use to avoid doing the real inner work? This conversation explores: Why people fake confidence instead of building it How social media rewards performance over authenticity The difference between being loud and being secure Why real confidence comes from self-work, discipline, and experience How to spot the difference between confidence and insecurity in disguise Fylisha and Lee unpack why true confidence isn’t about proving yourself, impressing people, or acting like you have it all together. Real confidence is quiet. It’s earned. And it’s built by keeping promises to yourself when no one is watching. Because pretending to be confident might get attention… but actually becoming confident changes your life.
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