90. When You Lose It as a Mom (And What to Do Next)

We would love to hear from you! Text us any feedback. Have you ever had a moment where you just snap—and the second it’s over, you wish you could take it all back?In this honest and personal solo episode, I’m sharing a moment from last week where I lost my cool as a wife and mom—and what God has been teaching me through it. Because the truth is, so many of us are trying to hold it all together, and when we don’t, we often carry shame instead of allowing it to lead us into growth. We talk a lot about getting things right, but today we’re talking about what to do when we get it wrong. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, dysregulated, frustrated, or like you’re failing in your home, this conversation is for you.I walk through what led to that breaking point, the warning signs I ignored, and the practical tools I’m learning to put in place so I can respond differently next time. We dive into how most blow-ups aren’t about one single moment, but the buildup of exhaustion, unmet expectations, and unspoken needs. I share the importance of naming what’s actually going on beneath the surface, creating space to pause and regulate, and learning how to reframe the thoughts in our mind before they spiral into something bigger than they need to be.We also talk about what it looks like to take real ownership when we mess up—being quick to repent, slower to repeat, and repairing connection without excuses. And most importantly, we unpack the difference between living in grace versus shame in motherhood. Shame tells us we are the problem, that we’ve failed, and that we’ll never change. Grace reminds us that we are growing, that one moment does not define us, and that with God’s help, we can continue becoming the women, wives, and moms we are called to be.This episode is a reminder that the goal is not perfection—it’s progress. It’s about creating a home where love, safety, and grace are felt, where repair is normal, and where our kids don’t remember a perfect house, but a peaceful and secure place to grow. If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or discouraged in this season, I pray this conversation meets you right where you are and encourages you to keep going, one small step of growth at a time.JOIN ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA:Follow Along @ - https://www.instagram.com/nikkicronksmith/