933 | How to Shift from 'Away From' to 'Towards' Your Goals

In this episode, Marsha discusses the difference between conscious and subconscious values and highlights the frustration that arises when one's conscious goals clash with subconscious beliefs. Throughout the episode, Marsha explains that while conscious values represent only 5% of our mindset, the remaining 95% is governed by the subconscious. She illustrates how this disconnect can manifest in daily life, where individuals may claim to value freedom or health but find themselves trapped in patterns that contradict those values. Marsha emphasizes that true alignment can only be achieved when both conscious and subconscious values are in harmony. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Values and Breakthrough Days 00:01:00 - The Disconnect Between Conscious and Subconscious Values 00:02:30 - The Role of the Nervous System in Value Alignment 00:04:00 - Personal Experience with Values Elicitation 00:05:50 - Understanding Identity vs. Values 00:07:30 - The Importance of Ripple Effect as a Value 00:08:30 - Conscious vs. Subconscious Values 00:10:00 - Motivation Direction: Towards vs. Away 00:12:30 - Sustainable Motivation and Moving Forward 00:13:30 - Identifying Subconscious Values 00:15:00 - Reframing Current Values 00:16:30 - Bringing Curiosity to Your Values Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast Unbothered Resilient Entrepreneur Masterclass: https://www.marshavanw.com/Unbotheredmasterclass Download "You Are Supported" Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. Tap the "Follow" button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.comConnect on IG, click HERESubscribe on YouTube, click HERE Mentioned in this episode:QUIZOUTSPOKEN AD QUIZ https://nlp.marshavanw.com/ OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp