952 Is Your Calendar Wrecking Your Marriage?

You're busy. Life's busy. Is your calendar wrecking your marriage? Too much to do. Too many activities. The schedule is bursting at the seams. You can't catch a break and neither can your marriage. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact In building a strong marriage, you must remember there is more than one person involved in daily commitments, daily responsibilities. And when you add in the children's activities, you've more than tripled the busyness. But what's the typical scenario? You control the calendar. You make the decisions. You say "yes" more than "no". Is your calendar wrecking your marriage? Now, we don't do this on purpose. We believe we are fulfilling our responsibility in keeping the family calendar in check. Your husband is focused on his job and you've been knighted the "calendar keeper". But have you? Believe it or not, your husband wants to be kept in the loop as to what's on the calendar. He wants the opportunity to say yes or no to commitments also. He doesn't like surprises. And he wants to be included. If you're a woman who hoards the calendar, you are wrecking your marriage. We need to be mindful of our control reflexes. When you said "I do", it's "We do!". So how do you prevent your calendar from wrecking your marriage? It all boils down to communication. Remove the assumptions and... The K.I.S.S. ~ Communicate the calendar content! SET the boundaries. Rules of engagement Know the No's SCHEDULE with permission. What do you schedule automatically? What do you schedule together? SUMMARIZE the calendar. Meeting of the minds. Communicate "Let your calendar support your marriage."   TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. 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