# 96: If you want a child who leads themselves, then...

Imagine this: Your child is "perfectly" compliant. They make their bed, they get the grades, and they follow every rule. Then, they leave home—and they completely fall apart. Without your constant "management" and biased questioning, they have no internal compass. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------They aren't responsible; they’re just well-trained. We discuss the terrifying reality of "projected emotions" and how parents unknowingly rob their children of their own identities. If you keep naming their frustrations and setting their metrics, you are ensuring they will be forever dependent—or worse, that they will eventually cut you out entirely just to breathe. Discover how to ask the "unbiased questions" that foster true responsibility and build an adult who leads themselves, even when you aren't in the room.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!