# 96 "Stop Shoulding on Yourself and Start Becoming Who God Made You to Be"

Ever catch yourself saying “I should be more disciplined… I should be more grateful… I should have this figured out by now”—and then instantly feel like you’ve failed before the day even starts?  Yeah, me too. In this episode, I’m sharing how one small phrase completely changed how I see myself—and how I talk to myself. It’s not about trying harder or adding more to your to-do list (because let’s be honest, we’ve got enough already). It’s about trading that heavy word “should” for something that invites peace, hope, and actual growth. I’ll walk you through the mindset shift from shoulding to becoming, what it has to do with your identity in Christ, and why your brain literally starts to rewire when you change the way you speak to yourself. We’ll talk rebellion, grace, and even a six-hour train ride through the Arkansas mountains. So grab your coffee, pull up a comfy seat, and let’s chat about how to finally stop shoulding on yourself—and start becoming the woman God is shaping you to be. ☕💛 CONNECT  WITH ME RESOURCES:  Join the email list! Because who doesn’t need another uplifting email between Amazon receipts?         https://lhplifecoach.myflodesk.com/emaillist Want just a moment of time set aside for you alone? A one time coaching session is just what you need, a sounding board, a place to come and process.  Here is the link if you are ready to do the thing!  55 Minute Coaching Session   https://lhplifecoach.as.me/?appointmentType=77342138   Want to reach me?  [email protected]