#96 The Truth About Leadership, Motherhood & the Pressure on Women to Have It All | Yuying Deng

What do you do when your own child says she doesn’t want to become like you?In this conversation with Yuying Deng, a lawyer-turned-tech founder and one of Singapore’s most quietly powerful women in leadership. I dive into the messy, honest side of career growth, motherhood, and building a company from scratch.We talk about the pressure on women leaders, the guilt every working mom carries, and how she balances logic, intuition, and entrepreneurship in Singapore’s fast-moving tech world.Yuying also shares how growing up inside a nursing home shaped her leadership mindset and why fulfillment isn’t something you chase, it’s something you notice.If you want a real, unfiltered look at women leadership, resilience, and what it actually takes to build a meaningful career, tune in now!===Join me for Return to Love – a 28-day guided journey to rest, reset, and realign with what truly matters.  Because love — for yourself, for your work, for the people around you —is the foundation of lasting wellbeing and nourishing success.🌹 Next cohort starts on 18 Jan 2026 → http://bit.ly/3IAKXfB===IN THIS EPISODE(00:00) The hidden pressure powerful women never admit out loud(04:05 )The dream she had to abandon… and why it still matters(07:48) What childhood experiences secretly shape high achievers(13:25) The hidden emotional cost behind every “successful” life(15:07) What motherhood teaches you about leadership (that MBAs don’t)(15:54) The truth about loneliness at the top — and how she handles it(19:24) The heartbreak that quietly reshaped her worldview(20:58) How she decides when to trust her gut vs. the data(24:14) Who she really is when the titles, roles, and labels fall away(26:16) Her honest take on identity, belonging, and being Singaporean(31:50) Redefining success when life gets loud and priorities shift💫 ABOUT YUYING DENGYuying Deng is a lawyer-turned-tech founder, entrepreneur, and CEO of Esevel, a Singapore-based platform that manages IT operations for distributed teams worldwide.💫 ABOUT YANA FRYYana Fry is a globally recognized speaker, top-ranked podcast host, and founder of YanaTV and Timeless Teachings. Known as a soul interviewer, Yana has a rare gift for creating intelligent, emotionally safe spaces where people reveal truths they’ve never spoken publicly before. LET’S CONNECTLinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry Bookings → [email protected] → YanaTV Channel❤️ RETURN TO LOVE → http://bit.ly/3IAKXfBJOIN THE CONVERSATION👉 If this episode resonates, please subscribe to YanaTV, share it with someone you love, and leave a review - it helps us bring more untold stories into the world.And tell me in the comments: What does success mean to you - today, in this season of your life?