97: Let's talk about sex (No, Really) and the cultural baggage men and women carry around pleasure

Sex is everywhere except in our conversations. In this episode, Roula and Rosie get real about one of the most avoided yet essential topics: sex and relationships. From the silent expectations we carry to the myths we've been taught; they dive into how our lack of honest conversations about sex impacts everything from personal satisfaction to long-term intimacy. 💬 In this episode:  Why couples avoid talking about sex—and how that messes things up The cultural conditioning women face around pleasure How emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in the bedroom The real damage caused by faking orgasms The importance of exploring your desires—on your own Why midlife might be your sexual prime (yes, really) Whether you're newly dating, long-time partnered, or figuring it out solo, this episode is for anyone ready to rethink what good sex really means. It’s open, honest, a little spicy, and full of lightbulb moments (plus a few unexpected song lyrics). Tune in and let’s talk about it for real.  Takeaways Couples often avoid discussing sex and money early in relationships. Not talking about sex can lead to long-term relationship issues. Many people are not raised to have open conversations about sex. Understanding personal preferences is crucial for sexual satisfaction. Women are often conditioned to prioritize pleasing their partners over their own desires. Men may feel pressured to know how to please women without asking. Faking orgasms is common, and many women do not know how to orgasm. Education and exploration are key to understanding one's sexual preferences. It's important to have honest conversations with oneself about sexual likes and dislikes. Midlife can be a time for rediscovery and enjoyment of sexuality.  Keywords  Sex, relationships, communication, preferences, education, intimacy, emotional intelligence, sexual health, self-exploration, upbringing --------------------☕️ Buy us a coffee!🎙️ Send us a voice message🛍️ Buy some Rosie and Roula merch!--------------------⭐️ Leave us a review▶️ Follow us on Instagram and TikTok🎞️ Subscribe to our YouTube channel--------------------🎧 Check out Roula's podcast🎧 Check out Rosie's podcast