99 | Your Body Is Speaking— Here’s How To Listen (A Simple Practice For Midlife Women)

Have you ever struggled to put words to what you're feeling — in your body, in the bedroom, or even in your doctor's office? You're not alone, and it's not your fault. Most of us were never taught the language of our own bodies, and that silence comes at a real cost: disconnection in intimate relationships, unspoken pain, and leaving healthcare appointments feeling dismissed and unheard.In this solo episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriela Espinosa explores what intimacy actually requires — not performance, not perfect words, but the ability to sense what's happening inside you and give it a name. Drawing on her work as an intimacy and attraction facilitator and a panel talk she gave at South by Southwest, Gabriela walks you through the neuroscience of body awareness (interoception), the three layers of intimacy practice, and a simple three-word framework — notice, feel, name — you can start using today.Embodiment Tune-In Guided Audio. Create a practice of connecting to your body, tuning in to what there is to be felt and accessing the pleasure that lives within you.Highlights from our discussion include:Intimacy starts with self-connection, not technique. Your body is already speaking — learn to hear it.Disconnection costs you in intimacy and healthcare.The practice is simple: notice, feel, name.Build the muscle in ordinary moments.What would change for you if you could clearly say I need to slow down — or I want more of that? That clarity isn't about confidence. It's vocabulary. Start small: today, pause once and name one sensation in your body. That's where it begins.CONNECT WITH GABRIELLA ESPINOSA:InstagramLinkedInWork with Gabriella! Full episodes on YouTube.The information shared on Pleasure in the Pause is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider before making any decisions about your health or treatment. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or Pleasure in the Pause.