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Oct 10, 2023 1 hr 48 min

A 3some, Not Seeking Validation, Embracing Self-Love! [Client Interview]

from Andy Wells Hosted by Andy

One of my coaching clients, Avi, joins me to talk about all he's achieved so far in the coaching program: He had a 3some, started his own business and published 34 videos, had a cold-approach lay, has 3 girls he's seeing at the same time, learned to give himself love, went balls-deep with honesty, vulnerability and authenticity with the women he's dating, made a bunch of accountability partners who'll push him for life, started believing he actually is attractive and worthy, and so much more! 00:00 Avi's accomplishments 01:07 The 3some! 19:17 Appreciating your own sexuality & removing sexual shame/guilt 28:33 Non-attachment / abundance mentality 42:48 Removing the pressure to have sex on 1st dates 48:04 Self-love / self-respect 58:08 Would you be ok if you didn't achieve your big goals? 01:04:06 Not seeking validation from women 01:10:38 Does Andy ever struggle with non-neediness? 01:17:08 You might think you know Andy, but... 01:24:31 Are your thoughts actually YOUR thoughts? 01:32:07 How to overcome limiting beliefs 01:35:50 Starting his own business 01:39:15 How accountability has changed his life 01:45:16 Where would he be if he hadn't done coaching? 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching $200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call ▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬ 😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com ▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬ ▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere 📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

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One of my coaching clients, Avi, joins me to talk about all he's achieved so far in the coaching program: He had a 3some, started his own business and published 34 videos, had a cold-approach lay, has 3 girls he's seeing at the same time, learned to give himself love, went balls-deep with honesty, vulnerability and authenticity with the women he's dating, made a bunch of accountability partners who'll push him for life, started believing he actually is attractive and worthy, and so much...

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A 3some, Not Seeking Validation, Embracing Self-Love! [Client Interview]

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  1. 0:00 Threesome Experience and Reflections
  2. 9:30 Exploring Threesomes and Pleasure Dynamics
  3. 20:06 Reframing Sexuality
  4. 23:42 Expressing Sexuality Without Pressure or Expectation
  5. 27:04 Open and Honest Communication About Intimacy
  6. 30:48 Navigating Expectations and Pressure in Relationships
  7. 36:39 Power of Giving and Embracing Honesty
  8. 43:08 Changing Perspectives on Dating and Sexuality
  9. 46:57 Search for Validation and Self-Reflection
  10. 56:07 Finding Self-Validation, Letting Go of Neediness
  11. 1:08:34 Challenge of Self-Acceptance and Validation Seeking
  12. 1:14:34 Exploring Validation and Detaching From Compliments
  13. 1:22:15 Exploring Internal Identity and Non-Attachment
  14. 1:29:14 The Power of Thoughts and Self-Belief
  15. 1:36:33 Group Coaching and Community Support Value
  16. 1:43:50 The Value of Lifetime Coaching Support
  17. 1:47:21 Support and Coaching for Personal Growth

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