A Conscious Relationship Starts With Choosing Yourself: With Sara Fiordi & Mark Mack

The fastest way to reveal your unhealed patterns isn’t another self-help book, it’s getting close to someone you love. We’re Michael and Amy, and we’re joined by somatic and identity coach Sarah Fiordi and her partner Mark, a somatic coach for men, to pull apart the idea of the relationship being a mirror and make it real for everyday couples.We talk about what a conscious relationship actually is: two individuals committing to themselves first, not as a selfish move, but as the foundation for a safer, more intimate partnership. Sarah shares how she began noticing the link between nervous system regulation, relationship dynamics, and even success and visibility in business. Mark adds the other side of the coin: freeze, shutdown, disconnection, and how conscious leadership starts with returning to the body.You’ll hear practical tools for when the spark disappears and the triggers take over, including “the pause” (space to regulate, not a break-up), the SEW method (Sensation, Emotion, Want), and why creating a “void window” can help rewire old evidence of danger into new evidence of safety. We also get honest about the messy part: what happens when one partner grows faster, how criticism can be a nervous system response, and how trust and surrender become the next layer of healing.If you’re searching for conscious relating, somatic coaching, nervous system healing, and real strategies for conflict repair, this one will meet you where you are. Subscribe, share this with your partner, and leave a review so more people can build relationships that help them thrive.Find Mark & Sara here:https://teamunfiltered.com/Instagram: Sara: https://www.instagram.com/_sarafiordi?igsh=M2c0ZWwwa2ppMWM5Mark: https://www.instagram.com/markmack_?igsh=MXh5dW9wenZ0d3I5Thankyou for listening, if you liked it, please remember to subscribe.Join our Private "Thriving relationships - Deepening connection to self and others" community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1107209283451758/Website: https://michaelandamy.com.au/Join our free 7 day relationship challenge: https://michaelandamy.com.au/free-relationship-challengeIf you would like to book in a private discovery call with us, here is the link: https://michaelandamy.com.au/call