A Conversation About Abusive Relationships: Shame, Victim Blaming & Shattering Myths / Stereotypes

If you've been listening for a while you know I talk about some pretty "uncomfortable" things around here.  Well today is no exception, in fact it may be the most uncomfortable episode I have ever recorded. Today is a conversation about abusive relationships, and I want to be clear that this episode does not have the answers, it is about opening the door to a highly uncomfortable, stigmatized, and difficult topic, and offering some perspectives you may not have previously considered.   I'll be sharing;   Some very startling and stark facts, research, and statistics around reported abuse globally in a variety of different demographics The Definition of trauma bonding and what could make it a huge factor in why someone stays in an abusive relationship Falsehoods, stereotypes, misconceptions and a lack of empathy I've heard around this topic over the years all while speaking about why we need to shatter these and speak up and out about abuse in relationships. And more…   Are you ready? Let's go For the full transcription of today's episode head over to https://emilygoughcoaching.com/a-conversation-about-abusive-relationships-shame-victim-blaming-shattering-myths-stereotypes/ References from today's episode:  If you are experiencing abuse of any kind and need assistance please check out the websites below: https://www.thehotline.org/ https://endingviolencecanada.org/getting-help-2/ https://www.ontario.ca/page/get-help-if-you-are-experiencing-violence https://www.respect.gov.au/services/   Episode 130: Cancer, Depression, Strength: A Powerful Story of Hope and Resilience with Tom McClelland https://emilygoughcoaching.com/cancer-depression-strength-a-powerful-story-of-hope-resilience-with-tom-mcclelland/   Episode 229: Mens Mental Health in the Workplace with Scott Baker of Baker Group AU https://emilygoughcoaching.com/mens-mental-health-in-the-workplace-with-scott-baker-of-baker-group-au/   Episode 266: Not All Men But Almost Always with Traver Boehm https://emilygoughcoaching.com/not-all-men-but-almost-always-with-traver-boehm-of-man-uncivilized/   Episode 117: The 9 Year Affair: Lessons in Infidelity https://emilygoughcoaching.com/the-9-year-affair-lessons-in-infidelity/ Domestice Violence Statistics Globally:  https://www.hrc.org/resources/violence-against-the-transgender-community-in-2019 https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/daily-quotidien/200909/dq200909a-eng.htm https://vawnet.org/sc/serving-trans-and-non-binary-survivors-domestic-and-sexual-violence/violence-against-trans-and https://www.nwac.ca/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Fact_Sheet_Violence_Against_Aboriginal_Women.pdf https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/cj-jp/victim/rd3-rr3/p3.html https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK499891/ https://www.scie.org.uk/safeguarding/adults/introduction/types-and-indicators-of-abuse https://talkingparents.com/blog/july-2019/why-domestic-violence-goes-unreported https://vawnet.org/sc/scope-problem-intimate-partner-homicide-statistics https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS https://www.nytimes.com/2019/04/12/us/domestic-violence-victims.html https://www.femicideincanada.ca/about/trends https://www.thespec.com/news/world/2017/09/15/homicide-now-second-leading-cause-of-death-for-pregnant-women-in-the-us.html https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/violence-against-women https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/canada-domestic-violence-double-covid-pandemic_ca_6033dadac5b67c32961f779f https://time.com/5928539/domestic-violence-covid-19/ https://www.socialsolutions.com/blog/domestic-violence-statistics-2018/ https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/publications/intimate-partner-abuse-against-men.html https://ifstudies.org/blog/eight-reasons-women-stay-in-abusive-relationships   FIND EMILY ONLINE: IG: @emilygoughcoach [email protected] Emily Gough Coaching Room to Grow Podcast   Questions?  Comments? Want to connect and chat about this episode? You can email me at [email protected], or DM me over on Instagram @emilygoughcoach or Facebook at Emily Gough Coaching.  I would absolutely love to connect with you and thank you for listening in real life and here any takeaways you had from this or other episodes!.  It makes me day to see you listening to the podcast and fills me up with pure joy. Seriously.  See you on the 'gram! If Instagram and Facebook aren't your jam, send me a good old fashioned email!  [email protected] BRAND NEW EPISODES EVERY TUESDAY & THURSDAY