A Conversation with La’Que Styles

This final episode of the year features La’Que Styles, who shares her lupus diagnosis and experience with the Lupus Has No Face Christmas charity drive. Who is La’Que Styles? La’Que Styles describes herself as multifaceted, encompassing many roles (sister, daughter, aunt, friend, mother, influencer, encourager, prayer warrior, woman of God). The name itself, derived from her given name Lakuta, represents her diverse identities and many styles. Lupus Diagnosis and Early Life La’Que first experienced symptoms around age 24, initially misdiagnosed with MCTD (mixed connective tissue disorder), an inflammatory condition encompassing five diseases. After further symptoms, including severe leg pain and faints, she was diagnosed with SLE (systemic lupus erythematosus), and fibromyalgia. A family history of arthritis contributed to the diagnosis. Initially, she didn't adhere strictly to prescribed medication (prednisone, Hydrochloroquine), managing her condition more holistically. Her approach changed after the loss of her parents in 2020-2021, leading to a more consistent medication regimen. Acceptance and the Power of Faith La’Que explains her unique understanding of "acceptance," distinguishing between acknowledging the diagnosis (understanding lupus exists in her body) and fully embracing it emotionally. She initially pushed away the diagnosis, focusing on her faith and strength. However, the loss of her parents prompted self-reflection and a desire to inspire others with her story. She now views acceptance as a gateway to advocacy and healing. The Lupus Has No Face Christmas Charity Event La'Q’s involvement stemmed from seeing Quentin's TikTok post about the event. Inspired by the opportunity to serve and help the lupus community, she willingly assisted, providing invaluable support to the event organizers. Memorable Moments from the Event La’Que highlights two particular moments: a young boy, JP3, initially hesitant to participate, overcoming his nervousness to give a powerful speech; and a young woman, inspired by La’Que's own basketball experience, gaining confidence. These encounters exemplified the event's impact on young people affected by lupus. Advocating for Lupus Awareness La’Que stresses the importance of giving back to the community, offering suggestions such as makeover events that focus on building self-esteem and beauty among women with lupus. She envisions larger-scale events and increased collaboration to expand Lupus Has No Face's reach. La’Que Styles’ Hair Products La’Q Styles created "Total Image" hair products (shampoo, conditioner, reconstructive conditioner) to address hair loss and brittleness related to lupus and other conditions. She recommends weekly deep conditioning for healthy hair. She also emphasizes the importance of consulting dermatologists for personalized advice on hair loss and scalp conditions, sharing her own positive experience with Dr. Ashley Diedrich. **Where to Find La’Que Styles** La’Que Styles can be found on Facebook (La’Que Hairstyles), Instagram (La’Que Styles), and TikTok (Wildchild). She is a traveling hairstylist and can be contacted at 414-213-6159 (business inquiries only). Thank you for tuning in to "Lupus Has No Face," a podcast dedicated to sharing real stories and insights on living with Lupus and other invisible illnesses. Tune in to be inspired, empowered, and reminded that your story matters. ✨ Resource Links Official Website: www.lupushasnoface.com Savannah Burks Brand: www.SavannahBurks.com @LHNF on Social<