A Conversation with My Ex: D-day and the Aftermath

In this second episode of A Conversation with My Ex, Tim Tedder and his ex-wife Konnie talk about the disclosure of Tim's affair—first the partial truth, then the full confession he chose to make a week later.What followed was one of the most revealing stretches of their marriage: Konnie processing devastating grief while Tim watched, emotionally unreachable, from somewhere he couldn't explain. They tried. They stayed under the same roof for months, attempting repairs neither of them was fully equipped to make. And then, it was a misunderstanding that became the excuse for choices that would unravel their marriage.This episode doesn't soften their hard history, but it also doesn't leave you without hope. Two people talking this honestly about this much pain, with this much respect for each other, is its own kind of evidence that something worthwhile survived.I SHOULD FEEL SOMETHING (song lyrics)©2025 Tim TedderI know I did this
, I know this mess is mineYou fall to your knees while I make my standI know I loved you so I should feel somethingBut your eyes flood while mine fill with sandI feel nothingI feel nothing
Pain shatters all around meI feel nothing
Your heart’s brokenYou scream out my name, I feel nothingExcept the shameI should say something, I should tell you we’ll be fineYou cry for answers, I make you guessI sing songs so words should come easyBut you strain for music while my song’s at restI feel nothingI feel nothing
Pain shatters all around meI feel nothing
Your heart’s brokenYou scream out my name, I feel nothingExcept the shameWhere is the man who swore he would hold you?Where is the man with love gone wild?He would be covering you like a championHe would be comforting you like a childI feel nothingI feel nothing
Pain shatters all around meI feel nothing
Your heart’s brokenYou scream out my name, I feel nothingExcept the shameMy fist holds tight the seeds of regretSomeday I might plant them, but I’m not ready yetLINKS and EXTRASEpisode Page: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcasts/055Need personal help? Schedule a Session with one of our coaches.