A Dating Debrief: The Two Things That Actually Matter

I just got out of the shower, did my skincare, sprayed my fav scent on all the right places, and now I'm in my Snuggie ready to send you this voice note about boys. Pure slumber party energy — no teaching, no frameworks, just me recounting two very different dating experiences that taught me the same lesson: it really does come down to two essential things. I'm also sharing why I'm not stressed about finding someone right now, a tangent about what my substance addiction taught me about creativity, and a chaotic late-night phone call involving an edible and a Wall Street attorney. *insert upside down smiley face*xo, Jennifer**head boss babe @ ABDAPG HQ, freshly moisturizedKey Topics: dating advice, gay dating, values alignment, attraction, non-negotiables, dating in your twenties, internal family systems, parts work, New York dating, queer podcast, party girl podcast, relationship green flags, ABDAPGGot a question or topic suggestion? Send me a text, bb!Instagram: @timlandicho