“A Fragrant Friendship”

December 16, 2025 Daily Devotional: “A Fragrant Friendship” Proverbs 27:9 "Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so does the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel." ​ ​ In ancient times, precious oils and perfumes were a luxury since their fragrance was not only pleasing but often a sign of honor, hospitality, and celebration. They literally "rejoiced the heart," lifting the spirit with their sweet aroma. ​ Solomon uses this beautiful, sensory image to describe something even more valuable: "the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel." ​ The word "hearty" here suggests counsel that comes from the soul, which is sincere, earnest, genuine, and often courageous. It’s not just a polite agreement or flattery but is of truth spoken in love. Just as a fine perfume can refresh a weary traveler, honest and godly advice from a true friend can refresh a confused, burdened, or misguided heart. ​ This verse teaches us important lessons about the blessing of friendship. In the value of a Godly counsel, a true friend is one who is willing to invest their spirit and time into your life, offering more than just sympathy. They offer wisdom drawn from their own life or, more importantly, from the Word of God. This kind of counsel is a gift that brings true joy and direction. The Responsibility of a true friend is to offer "hearty counsel". We are called to be that friend. It means we must be close enough to know the situation and humble enough to speak the truth, even when it’s difficult. Our words should aim to be as pleasing and helpful as perfume, not harsh or condemning. ​ Take a moment today to consider the fragrant blessings in your life, those friends whose words have been a lifeline or a gentle nudge toward God's path. And then, consider this; Who might need the sweetness of your "heartycounsel" today? Reach out to that friend who has offered you godly, honest counsel in the past. Send them a text or call them to express your sincere gratitude for their "sweetness."