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EPISODE · Jun 2, 2026 · 20 MIN

A Letter to the Mom in the Thick of It

from The Ashley Ventrice Show · host Ashley Ventrice

If you’re a tired toddler mom who hasn’t slept a full night in what feels like years, this episode is for you. Child Development Specialist and mom Ashley writes a heartfelt letter to the moms in the hardest season of early motherhood — the ones who love their kids fiercely and are also, if they’re being honest, a little lost in it.   As a 40-year-old looking back on her toddler years, Ashley shares what she wishes someone had told her: what the “thick of it” actually feels like (without sugarcoating it), the ordinary moments that matter most developmentally, the specific things she misses that nobody warned her about, and the letter she needed to hear back then.   This one isn’t a framework or a strategy. It’s a permission slip. For the mom crying in the bathroom with the fan on. For the mom who loves her kids so much it scares her. For the mom who just needs someone to say: you’re not failing. You’re in the thick of it.   Topics covered: toddler mom burnout, mom identity loss, mom guilt, emotional regulation in toddlers, secure attachment, savoring motherhood, the bittersweet of kids growing up.   🎧 Share this with a toddler mom who needs it today.   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

If you’re a tired toddler mom who hasn’t slept a full night in what feels like years, this episode is for you. Child Development Specialist and mom Ashley writes a heartfelt letter to the moms in the hardest season of early motherhood — the ones who love their kids fiercely and are also, if they’re being honest, a little lost in it.   As a 40-year-old looking back on her toddler years, Ashley shares what she wishes someone had told her: what the “thick of it” actually feels like (without sugarcoating it), the ordinary moments that matter most developmentally, the specific things she misses that nobody warned her about, and the letter she needed to hear back then.   This one isn’t a framework or a strategy. It’s a permission slip. For the mom crying in the bathroom with the fan on. For the mom who loves her kids so much it scares her. For the mom who just needs someone to say: you’re not failing. You’re in the thick of it.   Topics covered: toddler mom burnout, mom identity loss, mom guilt, emotional regulation in toddlers, secure attachment, savoring motherhood, the bittersweet of kids growing up.   🎧 Share this with a toddler mom who needs it today.   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

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