A Sex Therapist Told Us Everything: Kink, Foreplay, & How to Have Better Sex

We brought a certified sex therapist to GlowJob — and she did not hold back. Sex and relationship expert Dr. Shamyra, founder of On The Green Couch, joined Julia & Sasa to break down everything from dating apps to kink to why your foreplay game is probably starting way too late. We get into the real questions couples avoid: What are the core values you need to align on before committing? What's actually going on with Gen Z and sex? Is the alternative dating app Feeld changing how people date? And what's the difference between a kink and a fetish (hint: doggy style counts as kink)? Dr. Shamyra also explains why "we have communication problems" is almost never the real issue, what andropause is and why men need to know about it, how to introduce kink using only things you already have at home, and why foreplay starts the second your last sexual encounter ends. Honest, hilarious, and genuinely educational — this episode will change how you think about intimacy. Get 20% off sitewide on Womanizer.com with code GlowJob20 -------- Follow GlowJob Socials: Instagram  Youtube GlowJob Website Email: [email protected] -------- GlowJob Podcast is the fastest growing beauty & business podcast that makes you hotter and smarter.  Best friends & co-hosts Julia Bellary and Sasa Li cover the internet trends, celebrity news, brand drama, and cultural moments shaping how we live, spend, and think — from viral TikTok controversies and influencer culture to billion-dollar business moves and the conversations everyone's having right now.  Funny and unapologetically candid, Julia & Sasa break it all down every Thursday with episodes you didn’t know you needed.