A Workplace Crush, An Unsolicited Dick Pic & Being The Other Woman

This week in the Dear Clementine inbox: I have been with my partner for 2 years and we are very much in love and in a healthy, equal relationship. In saying this, I have recently started a new job and have developed a 'crush' on one of my colleagues. I think my crush is just a crush - but I feel bad about the way I am acting/some of the things I am thinking. Am I a bad person or do you think this is normal? How would you respond (if at all) on receiving an unsolicited dick pic from a 40-year-old male client, as a female sole proprietor in her early 30s? My friend is someone who has no interest in relationships, but enjoys sex and connection, so dates multiple men simultaneously in an honest and respectful manner. However, she recently discovered one of the men has a girlfriend. Do you think my friend has any obligation to inform this girl of her boyfriend's cheating?  If you have a question for Clementine, send her an email at [email protected] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.