Activism, Hope and Parenting: Talking with Frida Berrigan

In a timely episode (hey, I planned it that way!) I'm sharing my conversation with Frida Berrigan, a peace activist and author, who shares her experiences growing up with activist parents, navigating tensions between parenting and activism, and raising her own children. We discuss the importance of engaging in activism while maintaining joy, the struggle of balancing multiple responsibilities, and the impact of ordinary acts in making a difference. Frida also emphasizes the significance of moral cheerfulness and acting within our capacity to contribute to positive change.As you'll hear in the podcast, Frida grew up in a family of famous peace activists and she wrote about her experience and how it inspired her own parenting decisions in the book It Runs in the Family: On Being Raised by Radicals and Growing into Rebellious Motherhood. You can also read her essays at WagingNonViolence.org and I recommend you start with her wonderful essay, Nuclear Weapons Ruined My Life (And I Wouldn't Have It Any Other Way).00:00 Welcome to the Tell Me It Will Be OK Podcast00:52 Introducing Frida Berrigan: Peace Activist and Author01:20 Frida's Family and Activism Background01:59 Parenting Through Activism02:46 Interview with Frida Berrigan Begins03:09 Frida's Children and Parenting Journey05:51 Balancing Caregiving and Activism07:27 Frida's Unique Upbringing and Education18:30 Navigating Tensions and Choices in Activism27:22 Parenting Decisions and Sharing Information29:47 Taking Action with Kids31:11 Impact of School Shootings32:11 Helping Refugee Families36:26 Balancing Effort and Outcome41:54 The Role of Ordinary Acts49:02 Moral Cheerfulness and Joy53:38 Accepting ImperfectionThanks for listening! And, of course, it helps if you will share, rate, and subscribe so more people can learn about and from Frida Berrigan and the other wonderful guest I have coming up! 🧡Takeaways:In our increasingly complex world, parenting anxious children requires a multifaceted approach that embraces both awareness and empathy.Frida Berrigan's life experiences illustrate the challenges of balancing activism with parenthood in a meaningful and impactful manner.The significance of moral cheerfulness amidst adversity is a recurring theme, emphasizing the importance of joy in the face of life's difficulties.Engaging with community and activism can provide children with invaluable lessons on compassion, empathy, and the importance of standing up for justice.Understanding that our efforts, no matter how small, contribute to a larger movement is essential for both parents and children alike.The podcast stresses that navigating the imperfections of life and parenting is a shared journey that requires patience and understanding.Links referenced in this episode:wagingnonviolence.orgMentioned in this episode:TELL ME IT WILL BE OK: The PracticeI invite you to check out TELL ME IT WILL BE OK: The Practice, a guided reflective journaling podcast for parents raising anxious kids in a worried world. This is not a list of things you’re doing wrong. This is not a bunch of one size fits all parenting advice. This is a place to remember what you already know. (And to learn some new stuff along the way.) Each session is approximately 30 minutes. I help us get grounded; share resources, inspiration, and information; and then using thoughtful prompts we journal together to move you forward in your understanding. It also includes access to our own private community. You can sign up for a free sample practice at my site: OpenBookParenting.com