Addiction & Relationships: How Do You Know If They’ll Really Change?

from Two Therapists At A Bar · host Dale Pickett and David Buruchara

You’ve heard the promises: “I’ll change.” “This was the last time.” But nothing’s different. In this episode, we speak to those loving someone with an addiction and the addicted individual. How do you know if change is actually possible? How do you tell the difference between hope and denial? You’ll learn what to look for beyond words and what the change process really involves. If you're tired of the cycle, confused about what to believe, or just trying to protect your peace, this conversation is for you.00:00 Dale hates flies & other Africa stories10:10 My partner has an addiction, should I stay or go?14:33 Do they really want to change?18:40 Talk is cheap22:36 When doing your best to change is not enough27:17 Owning your mistakes35:40 The process of change53:53 Are some addictions stronger than others?59:40 Reaching out for help1:03:52 What is rock bottom?Are you a therapist or clergy? Upgrade your toolkit and earn 3.5 CE hours with our $99 course on providing ⁠ethical faith-informed therapy with Christian couples.