ADHD, Anxiety, or Sleep Debt? Morning Routine Chaos Explained

ADHD, Anxiety, or Sleep Debt? Morning Routine Chaos Explained Episode summary It's 7:04am, the bus comes at 7:22, and your child is still negotiating like a tiny lawyer. In this episode, Dr. Amy Patenaude breaks down why morning chaos can look like defiance (or ADHD)… when the real driver might be sleep debt, anxiety, or executive functioning needs. You'll walk away with a quick "7:22 Driver Check" so you can stop guessing and start supporting what's actually happening today. In this episode you'll learn Use the "Who's Driving the Morning Bus?" framework to sort sleep debt vs anxiety vs executive function in real time. Run the 7:22 Driver Check: what wake-up looks like, the flavor of the stall, and what helps fastest. Spot the difference between playful/silly stalling and alarm-brain stalling (they feel different for a reason). Use "external brain" supports (without turning into a morning drill sergeant). Ask the school the right questions to get patterns, not labels—so you're partnering, not diagnosing. Tiny Wins to try this week The 3-step card (visible): Uniform → Breakfast → Backpack (put it where mornings happen). Body-doubling for lift-off: 5 minutes of "I'm here" support at the stickiest start point. Protect the bedtime runway: pick one anchor (same start time / two-step wind-down / devices out of bedroom). The 5-day sleep + worry note: bedtime, wake time, worry level, morning vibe—patterns > perfection. Pick one. One is enough. Free resources Tiny Wins email list: weekly brain-based Tiny Wins + scripts (if you grab a freebie below, you'll be on the list). Big Feelings Decoder — translate "big behavior" into brain-based clues + what to do next: https://psyched2parent.myflodesk.com/bigfeelingsdecoder Volcano Moments Guide — phrases for hurricane-level feelings (so you're not improvising mid-eruption): https://psyched2parent.myflodesk.com/volcanomoments Boredom Buster Guide — easy ideas for "I'm bored" moments that don't turn into chaos: https://psyched2parent.myflodesk.com/boredomebusterguide Disclaimer "This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not medical, psychological, or legal advice. Listening to this podcast does not create a provider-client relationship. If you're concerned about your child's mental health, safety, or development, please consult a qualified professional in your area." Links & follow Shownotes + previous episodes: https://psyched2parent.com/podcast/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psyched2parent/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/psyched2parent/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@psyched2parent