ADHD at School: IEPs, 504 Plans & How to Advocate for Your Child with Kelly | Inclusive Expectations

Does your ADHD child actually have the school support they need—or have you been told they’re “doing fine” because their grades look okay?For parents of neurodivergent kids, navigating IEPs, 504 Plans, school accommodations, evaluations, and special education services can feel like learning an entirely new language while simultaneously trying to advocate for the person you love most.This week on Chaos & Caffeine: ADHD Parenting Podcast, Danielle Kelly sits down with Kelly from Inclusive Expectations to help parents understand how to advocate for their ADHD and neurodivergent children at school.We’re talking about:Signs your child may need additional school support—even with good gradesIEP vs. 504 Plans and navigating the accommodation processWhat to do when the school says your child is “doing fine”What school data parents should actually be asking forTurning ADHD and executive-function challenges into meaningful accommodationsHow to prepare for an IEP or 504 meetingAdvocating confidently without creating a parent-versus-school battleMaking sure accommodations actually work in your child’s real school dayIf you've ever walked into a school meeting surrounded by acronyms and wondered, “How the hell am I supposed to know what my kid needs?”—start here.You don't have to become a special education expert overnight. But you CAN learn how to ask better questions, understand the information in front of you, and become a powerful member of your child's educational team.Connect with Kelly 👉 Inclusive ExpectationsThis Month's Sponsors:🌎 Bina SchoolA small, global online school built for kids who need learning to be more flexible, personalized, and human. 🦘 Ted KangarooSensory tools that help kids wiggle, focus, and regulate—without another battle. Use code: CHAOS20 to save 20%. 📚 Reading.comHelping struggling readers build confidence and parents keep their sanity one lesson at a time.🎲 DSS GamesHelping families put down the screens, laugh together, and actually enjoy spending time with each other again.🌙 MoonbuddyHelping kids calm their nervous systems without another screen in sight. Use code: CHAOSANDCAFFEINE10 to save 10%.🌱 MaryRuth OrganicsIf you’ve got a kid who treats vegetables like a personal enemy, MaryRuth Organics might become your new best friend. Join Our Patreon and Find All of Our Faves! 📧 Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email us at [email protected] the showDanielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:https://linktr.ee/chaosandcaffeinepodcastDanielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.