Adoption, Privilege, and the Stories We Tell w/ Patrick Armstrong

Adoption, Privilege, and the Stories We Tell w/ Patrick ArmstrongEpisode Summary:In this episode, we explore the complexities of adoption, privilege, and the narratives that shape our understanding of family. Through personal stories and critical reflections, we unpack the ways in which adoption is often framed as an unquestionable good while overlooking the systemic issues at play. We discuss the intersection of race, class, and power in adoption, the impact on adoptees, and the importance of centering their voices. This conversation challenges dominant narratives and invites listeners to consider the broader implications of adoption beyond individual experiences. In this episode, we cover:(01:23) Patrick’s adoption story and the moment his identity journey began.(06:05) Rejecting his Asian identity, reading “Too Korean to Be White,” and coming to consciousness.(10:45) Unlearning the dominant adoption narrative and embracing critical adoptee scholarship.(15:20) The Adoptee Consciousness Model and how it reshaped his understanding of identity.(18:03) Storytelling as resistance—and the unexpected healing that comes from being heard.(25:13) Building The Janchi Show and learning from other adoptees through conversation. (30:26) Becoming a parent and breaking generational cycles.(36:36) Burnout, community care, and the daily work of staying grounded. (39:00) Why a “positive adoption story” still carries trauma—and how to talk about it. (43:37) Adoption and abolition: connecting the dots through history and community care. (48:12) What’s next for Patrick and how to support his storytelling work.Call To Action:Subscribe to Adoptees Crossing Lines wherever you listen to podcasts, follow us on social media, and subscribe to our Substack for more content and community:Website: adopteescrossinglines.comInstagram: @adopteescrossinglinesBlueSky: adopteecrossing.bsky.socialTikTok: @adopteescrossinglines_Substack: Adoptees Crossing Lines SubstackConnect with Patrick Armstrong:Instagram: @patrickintheworldPodcastsWork With Me:Email [email protected] for brand partnerships and business inquiries.Editing by Samuel Oyedele (Editor)Special thanks to Samuel Oyedele for editing our podcast, support his work on Instagram or email him at [email protected].