Advice

We’ve all learned the hard way that many people who ask for advice don’t actually want counsel they want confirmation. They’ve already chosen their path, and if it succeeds, they take the credit; if it collapses, they blame the “advisers” who never advised them in the first place. Scripture explains why this happens: fools “would none of my counsel; they despised all my reproof” (Prov. 1:30). If people refuse to hear God, they certainly won’t hear us. That’s why good advice so often goes nowhere in our age men prefer their own will, and then resent God when their choices fail. Absalom’s downfall came this way: rejecting godly counsel, he embraced the advice that destroyed him. The lesson is simple and sobering: if you want the worst counsel, follow your own heart; if you want wisdom, listen to the Lord.