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One year post-breakup, Samantha steps into the hot seat as we explore modern dating - from Tinder and Bumble to sexuality filters, red flags, first-date dynamics, and the real question underneath it all:"Are you dating to be chosen… or are you choosing?"Together with co-host Angela and our resident family Yente, Brett, we talk about:• Healing before dating• Casual vs intentional dating• Dating apps in your 30s and 40s• Bisexual and pansexual identity• Who pays on a first date• Rejection, confidence and online safety• How to build a strong dating profile• And why you should start before you feel desperateThis episode is funny, vulnerable and refreshingly honest about love, lust, and learning yourself again.Because dating isn’t about finding someone.It’s about rediscovering who you are now.#Dating #Tinder #ModernLove #BreakupRecovery #SingleLife #SelfDiscovery #NotUsPodcast

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One year post-breakup, Samantha steps into the hot seat as we explore modern dating - from Tinder and Bumble to sexuality filters, red flags, first-date dynamics, and the real question underneath it all:"Are you dating to be chosen… or are you...

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