AI Is Not Your Friend: Geoffrey Fowler on Rating AI for Kids

In this episode of Cyber Focus, Frank Cilluffo speaks with Geoffrey Fowler, head of public engagement for the Youth AI Safety Institute at Common Sense Media, about why AI requires a different kind of safety framework than movies, apps, games, or social media. Fowler argues that generative AI is not static content; it is dynamic, conversational, multipurpose, and capable of changing from one interaction to the next based on the user, the prompt, the model, and the length of the conversation. The conversation explores how AI products that appear friendly, educational, or therapeutic can create new risks for children, from emotional dependency and privacy concerns to unsafe mental-health guidance and weakening guardrails over extended conversations. Fowler explains how Common Sense Media is working to build independent AI safety ratings for kids, modeled in part on crash testing for cars: transparent evaluations that help parents and schools make better decisions while pushing companies toward safer design. Main Topics Covered Why AI needs a new safety rating Lessons from social media and smartphone adoption AI companions, mental-health claims, and dependency risk AI toys, privacy, and weakening guardrails Independent testing, ratings, and child-development standards Company responsibility, public policy, and trust Key Quotes "AI is not your friend. AI is not human. It does not make the kinds of choices that a human being would make when you're having a bad day or when you're in a crisis or when you need somebody to really trust." — Geoffrey Fowler, Common Sense Media "[AI companies] shouldn't be experimenting on our kids. They should make it safe from the get go." — Geoffrey Fowler, Common Sense Media "These AI toys are little spies that you're putting in kids' rooms. They're recording their voices, they're recording behavioral data." — Geoffrey Fowler, Common Sense Media "The Common Sense Media Youth AI Safety Institute is neither pro AI nor anti AI. It's pro kid." — Geoffrey Fowler, Common Sense Media "We are here to research not just the hype of what companies say about what their technology does, we're here to see what it actually does and tell the truth about it." — Geoffrey Fowler, Common Sense Media Relevant Links and Resources https://www.commonsensemedia.org/ai-ratings/ai-risk-assessments Guest Bio Geoffrey Fowler is head of public engagement for the Youth AI Safety Institute at Common Sense Media. He is a longtime technology journalist whose work has appeared at The Washington Post and The Wall Street Journal. In this role, Fowler helps communicate Common Sense Media's work to evaluate AI products used by children, teens, families, and schools, including the development of independent safety ratings and risk assessments for youth-facing AI tools.