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AITA For Calling Out My Husband's WEAPONIZED Incompetence? | Reading Reddit Stories | 2DJB EP56 |

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Welcome back to Two Daddies Judging Baddies! In this episode, Mike and Dylan dive into some WILD relationship dynamics from Reddit's Am I The Asshole community.MAIN STORY: A 24-year-old woman is working full-time AND going to school full-time, but comes home to do ALL the household chores while her husband... just watches? She made him a chore list. He did ONE task for ONE day and then quit. When she finally told him she doesn't enjoy doing his laundry anymore, things got messy.Mike and Dylan break down weaponized incompetence, the "chore list debate," and why some partners think household management is just "nagging." Plus, they get into why adult relationships shouldn't require you to parent your partner.What We Cover:The reality of balancing work, school, and a lazy partnerWhy "reminders" vs. "weaponized incompetence" are different thingsMike's galaxy brain analogy that actually makes senseWhen it's time to leave vs. when to communicate betterPlus more Reddit stories and authentic dad banter!Hit subscribe for weekly relationship advice, Reddit deep dives, and two daddies judging baddies! 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 - Intro & Pod Banter00:01:54 - Story Setup: Best of Reddit00:02:44 - MAIN STORY: "Husband Won't Do Laundry"00:07:56 - VERDICT00:10:12 - When Guys Give Men a Bad Name00:12:40 - Finding Balance in Relationships00:15:20 - The "Emotional Labor" Reality Check00:20:15 - More Reddit Stories & Commentary00:25:02 - Story Analysis: Workplace Boundaries00:33:47 - Story: Ghosting in Marriage00:42:00 - Life Advice Segment00:55:30 - Final Thoughts & Takeaways01:11:00 - OutroYou can listen to the more wild podcast "Mike and Dylan HATE! Drama" or stick with the more Reddit driven podcast you've grown to love.SUPPORT THE SHOW & GET BONUS CONTENT:Get exclusive bonus episodes of both MADHD & 2DJB podcasts!💜 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon/Memberships⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ BONUS EPISODES☕ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Buy Me a Coffee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Us... both Mike & Dylan)👕 Get 10% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LaborLama Clothing⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with code MADHD🫢Join the conversation on our subreddit r/MADHD ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/MADHD/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit your own drama or Reddit Stories for Mike and Dylan to read at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://MikeAndDylan.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Make sure to tag it as 2DJB so we read it on the right podcast.About LaborLama (Use code MADHD for 10% off)When they're not solving your drama or unpacking generational trauma, Mike and Dylan are behind LaborLama, a clothing brand dedicated to creating comfortable, quality clothes for people who work hard. Unlike those shady print-on-demand companies sending you mismatched shirts that fall apart after one wash, Labor Llama delivers clothing worth your hard-earned money. Check out their quality apparel at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://laborlama.com⁠

Welcome back to Two Daddies Judging Baddies! In this episode, Mike and Dylan dive into some WILD relationship dynamics from Reddit's Am I The Asshole community.MAIN STORY: A 24-year-old woman is working full-time AND going to school full-time, but comes home to do ALL the household chores while her husband... just watches? She made him a chore list. He did ONE task for ONE day and then quit. When she finally told him she doesn't enjoy doing his laundry anymore, things got messy.Mike and Dylan break down weaponized incompetence, the "chore list debate," and why some partners think household management is just "nagging." Plus, they get into why adult relationships shouldn't require you to parent your partner.What We Cover:The reality of balancing work, school, and a lazy partnerWhy "reminders" vs. "weaponized incompetence" are different thingsMike's galaxy brain analogy that actually makes senseWhen it's time to leave vs. when to communicate betterPlus more Reddit stories and authentic dad banter!Hit subscribe for weekly relationship advice, Reddit deep dives, and two daddies judging baddies! 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦TIMESTAMPS:00:00:00 - Intro & Pod Banter00:01:54 - Story Setup: Best of Reddit00:02:44 - MAIN STORY: "Husband Won't Do Laundry"00:07:56 - VERDICT00:10:12 - When Guys Give Men a Bad Name00:12:40 - Finding Balance in Relationships00:15:20 - The "Emotional Labor" Reality Check00:20:15 - More Reddit Stories & Commentary00:25:02 - Story Analysis: Workplace Boundaries00:33:47 - Story: Ghosting in Marriage00:42:00 - Life Advice Segment00:55:30 - Final Thoughts & Takeaways01:11:00 - OutroYou can listen to the more wild podcast "Mike and Dylan HATE! Drama" or stick with the more Reddit driven podcast you've grown to love.SUPPORT THE SHOW & GET BONUS CONTENT:Get exclusive bonus episodes of both MADHD & 2DJB podcasts!💜 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon/Memberships⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ BONUS EPISODES☕ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Buy Me a Coffee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Us... both Mike & Dylan)👕 Get 10% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LaborLama Clothing⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with code MADHD🫢Join the conversation on our subreddit r/MADHD ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.reddit.com/r/MADHD/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit your own drama or Reddit Stories for Mike and Dylan to read at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://MikeAndDylan.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (Make sure to tag it as 2DJB so we read it on the right podcast.About LaborLama (Use code MADHD for 10% off)When they're not solving your drama or unpacking generational trauma, Mike and Dylan are behind LaborLama, a clothing brand dedicated to creating comfortable, quality clothes for people who work hard. Unlike those shady print-on-demand companies sending you mismatched shirts that fall apart after one wash, Labor Llama delivers clothing worth your hard-earned money. Check out their quality apparel at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://laborlama.com⁠

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