AITAH: Boyfriend Demands My Banking Login: "No Secrets Is How Adults Do It..."

In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw dive into a Reddit AITAH post from a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend is demanding full access to her online banking claiming that "no secrets is how adults do it." Is this financial transparency, or a massive red flag? Daryl and Caroline break down why handing over your banking login is actually illegal (yes, really Daryl used to work at a bank), why a narcissist's accusation is often a confession, and how controlling behaviour tends to creep in one small demand at a time. They also share why having your own money and your own privacy isn't a trust issue, it's just good sense. Timestamps: 0:00 — Intro banter (Cards Against Humanity and gym stories) 5:00 — Welcome + a note on making fun of people (five stars though, please) 7:00 — WTF moment: new students who emigrated to NZ on the same flight 26 years ago 10:30 — Reddit story: AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend my banking login? 15:00 — Discussion: why sharing your login is actually illegal + red flag central 18:00 — Gaslighting, coercive control, and "a narcissist's accusation is a confession" 22:00 — Wild tangent: YouTuber invited to a very wrong party  26:00 — The Epstein files and scat tables (you've been warned) 29:00 — Black Mirror Season 7 recommendation + wrap up Recommendations this episode: Black Mirror, Season 7 (Episode 2 in particular — you'll know the one) To find out more about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment: 🔗 https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/ 🔗 https://www.darylgove.com/#/ 🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/ To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: 🔗 https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story: ✉️ [email protected] Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course: 🔗 https://www.integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout Check out Daryl's Course — Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men: 🔗 https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449 🎵 Intro Music: Soul (Vlog Music) by DJ Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208