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In today's episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu sits down with Dr. Peter Attia to dive deep into the complex and multifaceted issues surrounding modern society's impact on men's health. They discuss everything from the plunging levels of testosterone to the weighty effects of body fat on hormone balance. Peter Attia offers an eye-opening perspective on androgen receptor saturation and its critical role in shaping our mood and physical strength, while also highlighting the potential benefits and risks of testosterone therapy. Venturing into history, they explore life expectancy trends, reflecting on how stress and lifestyle changes have influenced longevity. They also address the emerging challenges posed by "deaths of despair" among men and the profound sense of isolation many face today. Join us as we uncover the unsettling reality of a society grappling with the unintended consequences of its advancements. Additionally, the duo dives into the effects of substances like alcohol and marijuana, scrutinizing their influence on mental health and daily functioning. With an eye on a healthier future, they discuss innovative approaches like dopamine fasting and highlight the promising developments in weight management drugs. They also ponder the transformative potential of artificial intelligence in healthcare and the ethical considerations around brain-computer interfaces. Get ready for a compelling conversation that blends historical reflections, cutting-edge science, and personal anecdotes, offering valuable insights into navigating the modern world while striving for a healthier, more balanced life. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS ButcherBox: Get your choice of a free protein in every box for a year, plus that $20 off your first order with code IMPACT at https://butcherbox.com/impact. Tonal: Go to https://tonal.com and get $200 off with promo code IMPACT. Huel: Try Huel with 15% OFF today using code IMPACT at https://huel.com/impact. Miro: Bring your teams to Miro’s revolutionary Innovation Workspace and be faster from idea to outcome at https://miro.com. Design.com: Ready to transform your brand? Head to https://design.com/impacttheory and get up to 88% off. FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here. If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu’s Mindset Playbook —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Let me ask, what is it about modern life that is suddenly shortening life expectancy? Well, I mean, I think it's an interesting question, right, because most of what's in modern life is actually increased life expectancy. But I think what you're referring to is over the past five to 10 years, in the modern world, in the developed world, we've seen kind of a slight plateau and not to the plateau of actually a downtick for the past five or six years, even outside of COVID So if you take Covid out of it, is it true that we are living shorter? The answer is yes, but it's a bit of a statistical issue.

Here's what it is. Men who are aged 30 to 60 are dying at too high a rate, and it is now dragging down average life expectancy. So just as 300 years ago, average life expectancy was really short, a big part of the drag was that too many women and babies were dying during childbirth. And when that happens, you just drag down the whole population average.

So what's happening today is too many men, college age 20 to 60, are dying, and the most common cause of death is increasing out of what we call deaths of despair. So that's suicides and overdoses, and that is having a significant enough drag now on average life expectancy of people in the United States. Unfortunately, I can't speak to this in other countries. I'm not as familiar with the data in Europe or Australia, but I can tell you in the United States, that's what's happening.

Okay. Yikes. That actually, oddly enough, I try to predict the answers before I ask the questions. That isn't the answer I was expecting.

So suicide and overdose. Okay, so take some swags here. As somebody who thought a lot about mental health, it was in your book, what is going on? Where.

Where are we disconnecting the way especially men are living their life in modernity, which has brought us so many amazing things. But to your point, something has tipped. If you had to aggregate some of the biggest factors, what are they? So at the risk of just disclosing that, this is not an area where I consider myself an expert.

So now I'm speaking hopefully less as an expert and more just as a kind of consumer of information and someone who listens to experts. I think what I would say is there's. There's been a little bit of isolation of men. There's been a little bit of a sense that, you know, maybe men are becoming less connected to their sense of purpose.

And as such, this is producing, you know, behaviors in men that are ultimately harmful. Right. So. So one of the things that would result from everything I just said is basically a need to sort of mask pain.

And in many ways, if you think about the rise in the use of opioids as an example, which is the biggest driver of what I just said a second ago. So opioid use is the biggest driver of what we call accidental poisoning or accidental overdose. And that's been by far the largest group of deaths that have risen in the entire category of accidental deaths. It's not that more people dying in car accidents.

Right. It's Deliberate self harm suicide and an unintended self harm, which is overdose. Although you could argue that slow suicide or what someone like Paul Conti is called parasuicide. So, so what I mean behaviors that are kind of adjacent to suicide.

So. So, you know, you ask the question through the lens of modernity. I think modernity's been with us for a while. I don't know if there's something from a technology perspective that's making that worse.

So for example, we know, I think with, I think a reasonable degree of certainty that social media has some harm on mental health and a lot has been written about its negative effect in particular on adolescent girls, them being more susceptible, maybe even in adolescent boys or men, women who are out of adolescence. But there is clearly something else that's going on with, with, with men probably again, with respect to purpose would be my best guess that is leading to some sort of pain that's resulting in some sort of compensatory numbing strategy that at least I think plays a partial role in this. Let me ask a question that'll get at us the same topic but from an angle that maybe deeper into your wheelhouse. So if we were to take modern medicine, and we may need to define what I mean by that, but I'll finish the question first.

If we were to take modern medicine back say 5,000 years and so, hey, if you're out chucking spears and you know, getting the antelope and dragging it back and you get an infection, we can take care of that if we brought that apparatus. But otherwise their lifestyle did not change. Do you think we would increase life expectancy beyond what it is for Gen Z right now? Yeah.

So let me try to understand your question. You're saying, Peter, let's take everything that modern medicine has to offer. Medicine 2.0 specific. Yes, let's take medicine 2.0 back to 3000 BC make no other change.

Which is a complicated thing to imagine because that also means you'd bring electricity back and there's a lot of things you have to bring back. So it's. But let's just play as a thought experiment, somehow you just transport like alien doctors and medicine back to 3000 BC. Yeah, it's interesting, right?

Because going back to that point in time, our life expectancy was shy of 40. But as I said, there were largely three things that resulted in such a drag on life expectancy. The first is the one I already alluded to. So infant mortality was enormous.

I don't remember exactly the numbers of like one out of every X number of babies. And it was a small number, like maybe one out of every four or five babies born, the mother and or baby die. Jesus, full stop. Now this is not that hard to believe for anybody who's watched their, you know, if you're listening to this in your guy, if you've watched your wife go through childbirth, you can totally appreciate this.

Like my wife would have not survived the birth of our daughter if not for modern medicine. Absolutely, full stop. So we would have lost both of them for sure. So you have a huge amount of humility for what medicine has done to make childbirth safe.

Secondly, you have infections. So you know, it was very easy to get an infection. And without any sort of antibiotic, you didn't get too many shots on goal there. And then lastly trauma, so you know, you got a big cut on you, you fell, you broke a leg, you broke a hip, you're done.

So those three things alone basically wiped out our species, but not enough to the point where we couldn't procreate again. Enough of us were able to still pass on our genes before we died. But life expectancy was probably in the high 30s, right? There were probably people who live beyond that.

They manage to escape all of those things. But again, we're dying. Chronic disease. So I guess what your question is getting at is, is there something else in the modern world that is so toxic that despite all of the advantages of modern medicine, it's killing us?

I think the answer has to be yes. Right? So is the amount of stress we're under beneficial? Probably not.

It's probably a bit maladaptive for many people, especially people who are, you know, at a high end of it. Right. Stress is kind of like an inverted U shape relationship between performance and stress. So low, low, low levels of stress are not very helpful.

They don't actually. We don't have the motivation to do anything. You have to have some stress, some drive. But for, for any of us, at some point that becomes really unproductive and you start to kind of spiral in your response to stress.

You, you can't even multitask anymore. And sometimes that is all self imposed and sometimes that is imposed by the world around you, right? You have too many things in your, you've got a job, you're working three jobs to try to pay this and you have this bill that's due and all those things are very stressful and they're purely external. And then other times you could be in your shoes, right?

Where you're an entrepreneur, you're not worried about paying bills, but you're imposing a ton of stress on yourself because of who you are and your desire to do something that is above and beyond what you're doing today. So I think modernity enables a lot of that because basically it changes what we have to optimize for. So 5,000 years ago, we were really only optimizing for a few things. We had to find shelter, we had to find food, we had to procreate, and we had to be safe.

Those were about. That was really it. There really wasn't a lot of self actualization going on. At least we don't have really much evidence that it was.

That probably started a little bit later on. But 5,000 years ago, it's not really clear that there was much of that going on. Certainly 10,000 years ago, I think I'd be comfortable saying there was none of that going on, or at least not enough that it mattered. Basically, natural selection was the.

That was driving us. Yeah, that. That is the lens through which I look at a lot of this is what would have been selected for. So when talking to people in modern context.

So my life is divided into entrepreneurship and mindset. So I get people to come to me with mindset stuff. And a lot of times I'm like, this is just a maladaptive response to the modern world. Where the very first time this occurred to me was at Awareness Technologies, the first company that I got involved with.

And I remember thinking, dude, some people just need to be chased by a lion. Like, the way that they are approaching their lives is so bizarre that they're majoring in minor things. And when you don't have to worry about your survival, when you aren't looking left and right, being like, yo, I need you to keep me from getting eaten by something you can afford to isolate, which then has all these knock on effects. But it's maybe immediately apparent that this is gonna be problematic.

You don't have ready made meaning and purpose because when you have a child and you're like, yo, I have to make sure lives and everything is trying to kill it. All of a sudden you're having to manufacture this stuff. Now I'm a hyper responder to the modern world. So for me, I'm a city bather, not a force bather.

Like, I love building things, I love being around a lot of people and yet thoroughly enjoy isolation. So it's like I'm just built for this moment. However, I have these, what I can feel like are evolutionarily planted algorithms running my brain that are saying, if you don't do these things, you're going to feel profoundly ill at ease. And so I've had to think a lot about, okay, why would I need meaning and purpose?

That's the big one, right? So why would I continue to need meeting purpose? I've only been in the world, and if I have to work again, like, I should be on easy street. But I was the most paranoid, at my most successful because I realized.

So I. My last day of quest was on Monday, and my first day impact theory was Tuesday because I knew time off is not going to be the thing that I need to lean into. It's going to be meaning and purpose, and why am I doing all of this? And so having to map out what those evolutionary algorithms are that are running my brain to keep me from making mistakes became incredibly important.

So one of them, and this is the lens that I view you, really affected my vision of you, for sure. And how I should be thinking about health in our last episode where you got me to stop thinking as much about diet and more about exercise. How much do you think that plays into this? How much of this is a problem with being sedentary, sitting, watching Netflix, playing video games, which, you know, I love.

But I always want to know what's. What's causing the break. How much of this is centering, just not getting after it, killing things and bringing it back? Probably quite a bit of it, but I think there's probably a lot of things going on.

So the modern world today, like, if you. If you can imagine going back in time 10,000 years and bringing one of our ancestors forward here today, ask yourself the question, what would they recognize? Like, let's go through things. They were sitting in this room, so it's you, me, and one of our ancestors sitting there.

So he would. He wouldn't know what these things are that we're wearing, like, clothing. Like, what are these things on your face that have glass on them? Like, what is glass?

What are these lights? Like? Everything in this room would be. Everything in this world would be so foreign.

Can you imagine what they would think when they look out at Los Angeles? How long would that person survive? I just. I don't.

I don't. I don't. I just don't think they could survive very long at all. Despite the fact that they would have everything given to them.

They wouldn't be able to eat the food. It would probably. I mean, it would taste really palatable, but, like, it would be very foreign to them. Like, all these things and yet from an evolutionary perspective, there's not much of a leap between us.

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So when we sit here and think about everything you said, which I agree with, by the way, which is like this idea that we. And I put myself in this category at the top of the list, like, it's so easy to get worked up about things that don't matter. And if you frame them through the lens of survival, you would take a step back and laugh. But it's also the privilege.

We have to worry about stuff that isn't life and death because of the incredible society we live in. Like, that's kind of the. Like, if you're on the Titanic before it hits the iceberg, you can be worrying about whether they're serving lobster or steak. Like that's a reasonable thing to worry about.

Once you've hit the iceberg, there's only literally one thing you're thinking about. Am I going to get into a lifeload and live or am I going to get in the ocean and die? And so I don't think we should be too critical of the fact that we are where we are. I think what we need to do is help realign.

Like how do we extract all the value from the modern world? Because I don't think you want to go back in time 5,000 years. Even if I told you you could, I just don't think you want to. I don't think anybody would really want to.

They understood what it was like and how brutal the world was. I wouldn't want to go back in time 100 years. Think about 100 years ago, Tom. What was going on?

Let's see, we were five years, roaring twenties, so the world was looking pretty good. You're five years away from the Depression, which was going to. You're also only a decade out. Well, depending on how deep in the twenties from World War I, which was God awful.

Right. So, yeah, you probably lost. Yeah. This influenza pandemic that kills, you know, whatever 10% of the population you've got, you know, World War II.

You're five years away from falling off a cliff for the next 10, 12 years of the world War, depression. That was less than 100 years ago. I mean, would any of us actually want to go back to that? No.

So I don't. I don't have personally a lot of nostalgia for that. I tend to take the view of, like, yes, there's a ton of stuff about the world today that I don't like. But I'm still.

I just can't believe how lucky I am. You know, people sometimes have a hard time realizing how lucky we are in this sense. So There are about 8 billion people on Earth today. Do you know how many people came before us?

So what's the total number of humans born in the last 250,000 years? That's about when our species showed up. It's something roughly equivalent to how many people live right now at this very moment, right? No, it's actually much more, and it's very counterintuitive.

It's about 100 billion. Oh, yes. Okay, that's 10x. Yeah, exactly.

Me too. I couldn't believe this when I first learned this a few years ago. There have already been a hundred billion people on this planet who have lived and died before us. And so to think you're sitting here, I'm sitting here.

We are one of the very, very lucky 8 billion people to have been born. Everybody who's listening to us right now, like, right out of the bait, like right out of the gate, that's a lottery ticket. Now, factor in how many of us are born in the United States, Canada, Australia, Western Europe, like, born into a country where you're not under, you know, some horrible regime that's like, completely taken away your rights. So go through that math, and how many countries would you like to be born into today?

You've now reduced that number even more. So we really have hit the lottery to be here where we are right now. And instead I like to think about, okay, how can I modify my current world to not be as, you know, not have as many of the unintended consequences of modernity as are obviously going to take place if I'm not deliberate about it. Yeah.

What really blows my mind. So I'm totally with you. And as a student of. I don't think there's any way that you could ever want to go back.

And you realize people were just slaughtered, put on pikes in front of the, you know, the road leading up to your town. It was just crazy. Genghis Khan killed 10% of the world's population. Just killed them in the most brutal fashion that you can imagine.

It's Just absolute insanity. And I can go one step further. Tom, let's say I said Yingobak 500 years ago and you became King of England. Okay, so now you're the most powerful person in the world 500 years ago.

How's that working out for you in your dark, dingy castle with like nappy ass food and disease and like war? Like, none of it's good. None of it's good. Like, we're so much better off, no doubt.

And yet deaths of despair. And so what I find so interesting is looking at all of the improvements that we've made along getting life. Obviously we've not fallen back to where the average age is 40, but there's something really emotionally distressing about seeing that line begin to bend down. And so I start asking myself, okay, what are the things that I need to do to make sure that I am not falling prey to the things that cause issues?

So I'm gonna lay out the things I think are most problematic. Let me know what we think about this list. So I would have. In fact, if I'm honest in my soul, I still think that diet is problem number one.

So you've got, you said very eloquently that diet has. It is huge downside if you get it wrong, but limited upside if you get right. So I think that we're getting that wrong. So I think that's the first problem number two, exercise.

You have to manufacture it. And so now people start doing it. Meaning and purpose obviously already talked about that. I think that one is huge, but somewhat ironic given that people are gonna spend a lot of their time working to get money to theoretically live in this modern world, but somehow they're not attaching.

They're not taking the conscious action of attaching that to. I do this for this reason, and I think that that probably has a large part to do with the dissolution of the family unit. So few people are having kids now comparatively, so that becomes a big problem. But then you also have things like industrialized farming, highly processed foods, things where it becomes almost impossible to get around, things that are creating a problem for you.

And so now you have to be. There's no default setting that just works out from a health perspective. Whereas before the default answer was you wanted to have sex, so you were going to end up having kids, you were part of the social fabric and make huge demands on you in terms of taking care of the group, taking care of your kids. So you just sort of forced into a role that would be wildly emotionally advantageous for the Average person.

Of course some people are going to hate it. Let's not forget that those of us, that those of our ancestors who couldn't bend to those norms were killed or isolated and killed. Isolated and died. From a social previs.

Social perspective. I was actually talking to somebody while you asked me, why are we as humans? So, like, the question came up in the context of why is it. If I look at my YouTube comments and there are 2000 good ones and one negative one, it's the only one I think of.

I'm sure you can relate to this. I can relate to this for that reason. Yes, but. And totally understand.

And I said it's called negativity bias. And we're hardwired to. It's evolutionarily very adaptive. Because in that setting that you describe in our tribe, you had to be way more attuned to when you were upsetting people than when you were pleasing people.

Because if you were upsetting people and you get cast out, you don't have too many days of life left. You're not gonna survive on your own. Like, that's. That's sort of the human gift is our ability to work together.

So we're hardwired to accept that. And the smiling point. There is like, a lot of weeding out took place during this process to get us to where we are for good and bad. Because natural selection and evolution, we're optimizing for our genetic lineage, not our happiness.

It's very important to understand this difference. Natural selection does not care if you're happy, doesn't care at all. It cares how fit your genes are. That's it.

Unless you're so unhappy that you will kill yourself before you can pass on your genes that you have a negative pressure to get that gene out. But. But if the answer is like, you're not happy, you're not satisfied, who cares? Can you procreate and pass on your genes?

That's the only pressure that is maniacally driving evolution forward. Yeah. And once people wrap their heads around that, it becomes a lot easier to structure their life in a way that's actually gonna make sense. So given that, given that clarity, what should somebody do that is facing a basket of goods that we just went at least through a partial piece of that.

How should a guy who sees the numbers of deaths, of despair skyrocketing, how they begin to structure their life such that they deal with the biological realities and psychological. So one quick anecdote before we do that, and obviously we could talk about this for so long Because I think that's the essence of everything. Several years ago, I interviewed an amazing doctor on my podcast. His name is Tom Katana.

So he's a. He's a US Physician who became a missionary. So he's now a physician in Sudan, in the Nuba Mountains of Sudan, where the government is, you know, killing its own people. So there's an area in the mountains where there's a million people who don't have any medical care.

And he provides all the medical care to these million people by himself. He now has a little bit more help. He has some nurses and stuff. And so a group of us support his work there.

And he's doing incredible work. And he's truly one of the most amazing human beings I've ever met. Right. Very rarely do I meet somebody and think, like, I'm not sure I deserve to be in this guy's presence.

Like, there's such a gap between us as human beings. And one of the things I remember, Tom, when I was asking this question, I said to him, because he's going through just what the hellish life is, like. I mean, to be clear, bombs are being dropped on these people routinely. So half the stuff he's doing is taking care of kids who've had their legs ripped off from shrapnel.

Like, it's just, you know, they have to have holes they have to be able to jump into when the government is like, you know, dropping these bombs on and stuff like that. And I said, tom, it sounds horrible. I mean, like, what is the suicide rate there? And he's like, oh, the entire time I've been here, there's only been one suicide.

And it was someone that we later found out had a really bad brain tumor. And we actually just wonder if it was the brain tumor that had kind of altered his behavior. And I was like, and these aren't people that are all dying in their 30s. I mean, yes, some of them do, but also, many people survive into their 70s and 80s.

So it's not just that you can say, well, you know, we don't have deaths of despair because we're all dying from trauma. No, there's something else going on. And I think about that all the time, because here you have people living today who are living in a situation that is abject misery, and yet somehow it doesn't cross their minds and their lives the way it would cross our minds. I'm sure if I said to you, tom, I'm going to ship you over to Sudan for the next 10 years, like, or if you said the same thing to me, I'm like, I don't know if I can do this right.

So what is that like? To me, that's super interesting. And I think a lot of the things you talked about are covered, right? So even though they're eating not that much, they don't have great food.

You know, it's a very bland diet that is, you know, lots of rice and beans and, you know, they're eating meat that's not particularly wonderful and flavorful. And they're probably eating the same food every single day when it's available. You know, they, they have the Internet, but it's obviously not a huge part of their lives. Their family is very important, right?

So lots of kids, family is very important to produce the food and build the shelter and all the stuff that they survive in there. So clearly that gives them a purpose. Even though in the eyes of the world, they're not building businesses, they're not building companies, they're not quote, unquote, changing the world. So purpose doesn't really have to be necessarily on a world scale.

So I say that only as a foray into the question of, well, what, what, what should we do with the privilege we have now, which is amazing, to mitigate some of the downsides of it. And honestly, I don't think it's like that much of a mystery. Right. I think the nutrition sleep exercise piece is so obvious that I just, I think to ignore it is problematic.

But I also don't know if we really need to talk about it because is there anybody who would honestly be listening to us at this point who wouldn't agree with the notion that if, if, if you're thinking about eight hours of sleep versus six hours of sleep, which one's gonna produce better mental and emotional health? If you're thinking about being sedentary versus not being sedentary, if you're thinking about eating well versus not eating well, these things are really clear now. Part of the question becomes how do you motivate yourself to do those things? If you're start spot where it's like, I don't want to do these things, like, I'm isolating myself, I'm lonely, or I'm working too hard and I can't make the time to do these things, how do I prioritize them?

I think that's a discussion worth having. I think in terms of sense of purpose, maybe that's one of the most difficult ones to manufacture. And honestly, I just don't know that, like, I don't know that I'm enough of an expert in that area. I feel fortunate that that's not something I've ever struggled with.

I've always kind of felt like I know what I'm supposed to be doing. Whether people that come to your practice that lack motivation, they've got the money. Yeah, I think, I think there are people who come into my practice who certainly struggle with the motivation for how they can look after themselves. Right.

So there's definitely, I think it's independent of education, independent wealth status, anything like that, that sort of intrinsic drive for self care with respect to the sort of variables that we talked about. And again, I think that's where you kind of have to start with something that's a win. You gotta give people a win, I think. And I tend to always gravitate towards exercise because I think that gives most people, maybe not everybody, but I do think that most people, when they get into a routine of exercise, really start to experience physical benefits and psychological benefits.

And the physical benefits are evident. Right. So when people look better, when they feel better physically, that's reinforcing. But the actual active exercise is typically followed by a period of not necessarily euphoria, although in some people it can be, but just, you know, there's an increase in dopamine.

So you're going to actually feel better transiently and that becomes rewarding and self reinforcing. So I think that exercise is a great place to start building habits for people. And I also think that, you know, if you take a person who says, well, I don't really take that step yet, I don't really want to exercise, what can I do? I think being outdoors is very important.

One of the things that is pretty jarring about this world is the, the overabundance of symmetry and right angles and things like that. Again, going back to the example of the guy who shows up in our, who's sitting over here from 10,000 years ago, that's something that's going to be very jarring. He's not used to having seen straight lines and right angles and perfectly symmetric things. Right.

He's seen sort of fractal geometry everywhere. So there's some literature on this. It's not the most robust literature because it's very difficult to study, but there are some literature that suggests that people who spend a period of time outdoors every day in nature actually experience benefits in terms of brain chemistry. So it's again, it's challenging to test because it's challenging to measure, but it's actually Quite plausible.

It makes a lot of sense. Again, going back to the fact that our brains are still kind of 10,000 year old brains. An obvious example. This is our response to fear.

A lot of times we still, you and I both, I'm sure all day long experience the midbrain fear, right? Like the amygdala based response, the limbic system response, as opposed to the cortical response to things. And that's clearly a vestige of our evolution. Like we needed to be able to have a fear response quickly before thinking.

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Well, there's obviously the physical consequence of it, right? So the body does need to have a hormetic stress. And that's true in virtually everything we do. I mean, most of the times a stressor that's temporary produces a more robust organism following the stressor.

So in that sense, exercise is just one of the most remarkable examples we have of stressing the system. If you think about it, in the acute state of exercise, everything that's happening is actually taking the body out of equilibrium. So heart rate goes up, blood pressure goes up, body temperature goes up. All of those variables are actually going out of the area that produce that the body wants to be in normally.

So the body has to kind of counteract those things, and the counteracting of those things produces a response that makes the body stronger. So if a person is sedentary, and again, it's obviously easy to be sedentary in the world today, that wasn't an option for our ancestors, who, by the way, were quite sedentary when not working. Right. So it's not like we exercised.

We were conserving energy as much as we could. But, you know, we were still probably walking a lot and doing a lot of physical activity even when we sat, by the way, like, think about it. So you and me are sitting how? Like, are we actively sitting or passively sitting?

I feel pretty passive. Super passive. Right. But how did.

Our ancestors obviously would sit, but they would sit in a low squat. So if you've ever sat in a low squat on the floor, it's, you know, it's still sitting, but very active. So you think people weren't sitting there ass. They were actually sitting on their ass, which is still way more active than sitting in this chair.

Say more, huh? Well, it's more uncomfortable. You have to still, say, somewhat active to support your body. You have to keep your back forward, right?

You have to keep your hips in a certain position. Sitting on a log, sitting in just a very low squat as you're sitting over the fire, as you're cooking, as you're preparing something. Everything that they did just at a low level of activity was significantly more than what we're doing. This is, you know, this chair is designed to make us as relaxed as possible, as comfortable as possible.

And again, you know, some people will take that to the level and say, don't sit on chair like this. Don't sit in a chair that has a back. Just sit on a chair that only has a platform so that you are forced to engage your core to sit up. That's great.

But you get the sense that you could go through life quickly realizing little things that you can do to work around that. I sit on chair with the back, but, you know, I also make sure I'm gonna exercise, you know, every single day so that I can sort of offset the damage that comes from, you know, turning into a piece of wagyu beef. Very fair. Do you worry at all about the way that people manipulate their dopamine loops with things like pornography, Netflix, video games?

Yeah. Not an area of my expertise. So I come at this through the lens of a consumer of information. I'VE obviously talked about this on podcasts and interviewed people who are the experts on this.

So I don't know if you've. Have you interviewed Annalenka from Stanford? I have, yeah. A while ago, but yes.

Yeah. So, look, I think it is problematic, I think, when I think dopamine responses to things that are unnatural tend to produce too much of a counter effect where the deprivation of dopamine following the stimulus creates more discomfort than the comfort you gain through the stimulus. Yeah. So.

Well, let's start with the right way to get to manipulate dopamine. The right way to manipulate dopamine. Again, let's go back to that idea about, like, you have this idea of homeostasis is this very important part of the human body. So the.

You know, a lot of stuff I'm sure, you know, but maybe just to make sure listeners understand, like, how tightly the body regulates every process. So temperature. So if we. Assuming you're not sick right now.

I'm not sick right now. We put a thermometer in our ear, in our mouth. You know, you and I are gonna be within one degree of each other, and we're gonna be within one degree. We're gonna be between 90 and 99 degrees Fahrenheit.

That's gonna be body temperature right now. And that's gonna be the case almost under any circumstance until what happens, Right. If we're sick, we are gonna push the envelope of that and get higher and higher. 102, 103, 104.

Anything beyond that and we're in trouble. Right? You go much beyond that, you're gonna die. If you're outside in the cold, freezing.

If you're in water and you're freezing, your temperature drops much below about 92, you're pretty much gonna die. So high regulation of body temperature is an amazing power of the body. Similarly, how much we can regulate acid base balance in the body is even more impressive than temperature. Truthfully, how you can regulate glucose levels, the difference between a person who's about to die of hypoglycemia and a person with type 2 diabetes, is still actually a tiny amount of glucose.

In the grand scheme of things, it's literally teaspoons of glucose spread across the whole body in the plasma level. So our ability to regulate every single thing is remarkable. So now, if you look at the brain, dopamine is actually something that needs to be kind of regulated. And so a lot of times, painful stimulants, things like exercise, cold water therapy, they create enough discomfort that the body actually increases Dopamine production as a way to offset that discomfort.

Right. You have to give a little bit of pleasure for that pain. And so when you remove that stimulus, you still get a little bit of lingering dopamine, but it's not a super high spike. That is unnatural.

And so over time, that does become problematic. Now, a lot of the things that you mentioned are kind of hijacking the system. And again, it sort of comes back to evolution. Like we didn't, you know, have slot machines and video games and porn and, you know, pick your favorite drug that really hijacks the system, like cocaine or something like that.

And so what these things do is they're creating such a surge of dopamine along with other hormones as well. It's a bit oversimplistic to just say dopamine, but, you know, norepinephine, epinephrine, that when this, when the stimulus is removed, the drop in that dopamine is so high because as you've experienced that huge spike, your body is pulling its dopamine down. Right? Again, homeostasis.

We have this huge spike of dopamine. Well, our body is saying, that's too much. We're going to make less, so less endogenous prep and dopamine. Then that stimulation is gone and you're in a dopamine deficit.

So one of the things that actually Anna talks about is when she encounters somebody who's dealing with this is they do. I think she calls it a dopamine fast, right? So if a person says, like, I can't stop playing video games, she's like, okay, we're going to do three days of no video games. And this person will go through withdrawal.

They will literally go through a painful withdrawal that is no different than the withdrawal that, you know, if you remember train spotting when you watch, like, you know, when those guys are trying to get off heroin, like how painful that is, there's a literal physical withdrawal period from dopamine loops, whether James, porn, whatever. And again, you have to differentiate between. There are certain. There are certain times when these, these withdrawal symptoms are so difficult that they actually even require the medication.

That's usually not the case with something like video games, gambling and porn. But we know, for example, it could be the case with alcohol. So you take a person who's drinking an enormous sum of alcohol and they want to quit cold turkey. They actually do that to 100 microbiome, though.

I was assuming something else. Well, I mean, Domino's part of it, but they actually, it's actually probably more gaba related. So those people actually end up needing to be on sorbenzo diazepines to help cope with that. Jesus.

Yeah, otherwise it can actually be failed. They can fail arrhythmias if they withdraw alcohol too much. To be clear, that is not the case for most people. So if you're.

If someone's watching us and they're in habit drinking two to three drinks a night, you can stop that cold turkey. But I'm talking about people who are drinking like, you know, a four year jack every single day for breakfast. Yeah, Those people need to get a medical supervision as they, as they. What is the benzo doing?

Does it slow their heart rate? Like, I don't understand. Yeah, so it's probably balancing out the GABA agonism that ethanol was doing for them. Because GABA is.

Ethanol is a huge GABA agonist as well. So basically the body's trying to compensate for the suppressive nature of the alcohol. So you technically have this like overabundance of go, go, go from what? Blood pressure, heart rate, catecholamines.

Yeah, the whole thing. Interesting. So the body is relentlessly trying to balance the scale. So it's just jumping on go, go, go.

And as soon as you stop the depressant now it's going to throw you so hard. That is fascinating. I never stop to run the math on that. Okay, that's very interesting.

So, all right, putting this all back in context, we're living in this modern world is a world of joy and abundance. And I have a fascinating relationship with this because as I moved over to developing video games, people will come be like, yo, bro, I thought you were about mindset. Like, what are you doing? You're giving people a drug.

I'm like, what? My thing is, the modern world is so full of these amazing things to, like, you said, go back in time. I don't want to do that. That's not interesting.

So I want to have a relationship with these things, but I want a good relationship now, for better or worse, I did not have discipline as a young person. I'm talking in my mid-20s. So as somebody who developed discipline, learned how rules can be super beneficial, I've developed a relationship with what I call gamification. It's the thing that makes games fun.

But I apply it not only to games, but other areas of my life. And so I'm like, I want to see people have a good relationship with this. Now, as a father, have you thought about, like, do you try to deny your kids access to this stuff or do you have a method by which they can do all the fun things that the modern world has to offer but do them well? Yeah, I think being a parent today is probably a bit more challenging than being a parent 40 years ago, which is to say it might even be more challenging in 40 years.

Although I'm sure everybody thinks that their, that their time is the most difficult time. So. And this is the situation, this is what I think about more than anything. So to me this is, this is the jugular question, right?

Is what do I do to give my kids the best chance of being well adjusted adults? Like that's the thing that actually matters, right? I'm not asking the question what do I do to give my kids the greatest chance to be successful? Because, you know, how do you define success?

Like, do I give a shit if my kids, you know, go to the best university or get the best degrees or get the best jobs or make the most money? I don't care about any of that stuff. Like all that stuff is garbage. If they're unhappy, if they're not well adjusted human beings.

So I don't actually want them to make the mistakes I made where you don't think about that and all you think about is the pursuit of success and success and success. I don't want to make sure that they don't repeat my errors and, and sort of. So what can I do as a parent to set them for that? Because they're going to make their own choices.

So, you know, one, I don't think that complete abstinence is the right strategy because, you know, as my really good friend Rick Elias said to me on a podcast five or six years ago, parenting is like playing a game of tug of war that you have to lose after 18 years. That's a great analogy. Yeah. Now how do you lose it?

You can't let go the rope all at once. You can't hold on to the rope for dear life and in the 18, just let go. Because what's going to happen? They're going to go flying.

So you have to slowly, slowly, slowly, slowly lose such that by the time they head off to college or leave the house, whenever that is, they won the. But they went slow. And so, I mean, I think about this so much with my daughter who is 16, and obviously we have a very different set of rules for her than my 10 year old and my 7 year old. And you know, so for example, it has to do with letting her make choices that I think are wrong.

But you know, in three years she's not gonna live with us anymore. She'll be able to make all the choices she wants. So it's probably better under my roof that she figures out some of these mistakes. So let's use alcohol as an example.

I didn't drink in high school because I was a health nut, right? So it's like. It's just none of, like, nothing about, like, the normal things of high school. Like, I didn't go to parties.

If I did, I didn't. I rarely went. I didn't drink. Like, all I did was train, train, train, train, train.

It was the only thing I did. So anyway, I can't really relate to my daughter wanting to go to parties because I was like, you know, in my head, I'm thinking, I just want to go to a party. You could just study and train. But that's also.

That's pretty dumb. So I also realized it's pretty naive of me to say, like, go to this party but don't have a sip of alcohol, even if everybody else is drinking. It's probably much better for me to say, what do you think about drinking? Like, what?

You know, what are your thoughts on it? Are you curious? I mean, you clearly watch mom and dad have a glass of wine a couple times a week. You know, we have tons of alcohol in our house.

It's not like you don't know what this stuff is. But have you seen other kids drink? Do you want to try it? Anything you want to try with us right here?

This is a really good glass of wine. I promise you, they won't have this at the party, right? And then talk about, well, what could happen to you if you drink too much. What happens when kids drink and get in cars?

Like, so instead, we just sort of talk about all of these things because what we really want to do is get to the point where she's gonna basically be able to go and make her own decisions. And if her own decision is, like, I'm gonna have some nasty drink, I wanna make sure she holds onto the drink. She never drinks anything that someone gives you. You kind of go through all the rules that you would go through for a young girl who's drinking to make sure that something catastrophic doesn't happen to her.

And she also gets to know that at any time of day or night, if you need a ride, you can call us, and there'll be no questions of judgment. So. And that's just one example, but I'm kind of giving you a how I did that now. I have that type of Thinking with my kid that my boys were younger, not chance in hell.

We're way more restrictive to what those guys do because we're still holding down the road. Because if we didn't, they could kill themselves any given day by accident just because their brains are not developed. And they'll do stupid shit. Exactly.

Like, they're still at the point where if we're walking into school and they're fighting, they can easily fall out onto the road and get hit by a car. So they're just like, they're still in the stage of like, they could kill themselves any given day. Like, and you know, you just have to decide like, okay, well, if they really want to climb that tree where that branch is gonna break, and I've worn them six times, that branch is gonna break. But they don't wanna listen.

It's only a three foot fall. Okay. That's a lesson they might have to learn. It's interesting.

So I don't know if you know Brett Weinstein, but he has a fascinating rule for his kids. I hope I get this right. This is direction correct. If it's not literally correct, you can do anything that doesn't cause like cervical damage or brain trauma.

Like, it was these really specific things. If you're putting yourself at risk of breaking a finger or an arm or leg, cool. But if you damage your neck, your back or your head, absolutely out of the question. I was like, that actually makes a lot of sense.

Not scares a lot. I just don't know how you. I mean it's, it's in theory a nice rule, but I don't know how you would adjudicate that in the real world. Like, you know, is falling off a three foot branch likely to damage your C spine or your skull?

No, but look, theoretically it's possible, right? Like riding a bike in a scooter, really, really fast. Even with a helmet, you can still really cause some damage. So it's probably a nice heuristic.

I'm not sure how I would, how I would put it into practice. Yes, tough. Because ultimately you are. You're certainly running that Calculus City boys.

Now, about what branch you've tried to tell them and they're going to just keep pushing. It's interesting. That is one of the many reasons that I do not have kids like that. That is terrifying.

I don't know how I survived childhood to just be completely honest. And I was tame in the extreme like you. I did not drink, I didn't do drugs. I was quite literally terrified of all that stuff.

And yet still, when I look back, I'm like, like, bro, there was one time my friend jut, like, we had these beanbags. And when my parents were gone, of course, we would run down the hall, jump off the chair, the arm of the chair, and then, like, do a flip or whatever on the beanbags. There was one time he landed, like, face first. And the.

This probably isn't literally true, but this was like, at the time his heels hit the back of his head, just to give you an idea of how far he bent. And I was like, he's paralyzed or dead. And then he, you know, gets up and he's fine. But you have this moment where you're like, my life just changed in this instant because of a dumb thing they were doing.

Almost ran over a girl that I really liked. Long story, but, like, obviously on accident, showing off, just crazy, crazy, crazy. It is all. I feel the same way.

I feel. I feel a mental sense of gratitude for how much of a role luck has played in my life. How many stupid, stupid things I did as a young boy, you know, as a teenager especially, was probably peak stupidity. And like, how many car accidents I almost got in because I was doing something totally stupid.

And by the way, it's not just that I could have died, it's how is my life different if I had killed somebody in a car? And so I. Yeah, I just. That's.

You're right. That's the hardest part about being a parent is you just. You want to protect them so much, but at the same time, you know that you have to let them make some mistakes or else they will never learn. Speaking of potential mistakes, how do you think the mass adoption.

I don't know, the right word of weed is going to play out over time. And do you, like, when you think about your daughter, is it different between alcohol and weed or how's it going to play out? Yeah, so I kind of don't have the. I probably don't have the popular point of view on this.

So I think we need to be pretty concerned with the ubiquitous adoption of thc. I think there are a couple of things going on that are not properly being distinguished. Right. So do I think that if you told me that you smoked a joint every night before you went to bed or, you know, whatever in the evening or whatever, that to me is a very different situation than maybe what we talked about.

So, you know, with someone who's, you know, a fraction of your age. Right. So I think we have to sort of think about this through the Lens of a developing brain versus a developed brain. I think we also have to think about the mode of delivery.

So what's, you know, smoking a joint versus, you know, a much more potent concentrated thing that you're vaping. I think, you know, we have to think about quality control, which is like the difference between edibles in which you have no idea what you're getting sometimes where it's like, you know, batch to batch variability can be quite high. You know, things that are being basically bred to be more and more potent. So, you know, when we look at a lot of the epidemiologic data, it's based on what THC, what marijuana looked like 20 years ago, but that's necessarily what it looks like today.

And again, it also just begs the question, like, what are we numbing? Right? So what. What do we want people to be numbing with this experience?

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