Alcohol: whose problem is it?

We explore the hidden social pressure around alcohol and why choosing not to drink can feel like breaking an unspoken rule, especially among men. In this episode of The Men We Are, we unpack drinking culture, masculinity, and the psychology behind why alcohol is often the default in social settings. From peer pressure and “just one pint” moments to deeper themes like emotional expression, belonging, and mental health, we examine how alcohol shapes connection and conversation. We also explore the concept of normative social influence, the stigma around non-drinkers, and whether alcohol acts as a social lubricant or emotional crutch. This isn’t about demonizing drinking; it’s about awareness, choice, and redefining connection without relying on what’s in your glass.