All We Want Is Everything: Soraya Chemaly on Male Supremacy, Power & Decentering Men

What happens when we finally name the system?In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by award-winning journalist, activist, and author Soraya Chemaly, whose latest book All We Want Is Everything: How We Dismantle Male Supremacy, is one of the most important books on gender and power published in recent years.Soraya has spent decades researching and writing about gender, culture, and power — and in this conversation, we explore the structural forces shaping women’s lives, from the subtle ways society centers men to the political backlash against women’s independence happening right now.We talk about why the language of “gender equality” often fails to capture the reality of the system we live in — and why naming male supremacy matters.This episode is a deep dive into the cultural, political, and psychological forces shaping women’s lives today — and what it means to step outside those systems and choose ourselves.In This Episode We DiscussWhy Soraya chose to name the system male supremacyWhat it means to decenter menWhy women are socialized to prioritize pleasing over knowingThe hidden ways institutions are structured around menWhy the backlash against women’s freedom is happening nowThe cultural forces shaping women’s confidence and ambitionWhy male flight from “feminized spaces” is reshaping politicsThe myth of meritocracy in elite educationWhy progress has happened — and why backlash follows itHow everyday choices contribute to cultural changeWhy Gen Z women give Soraya hope for the futureA Powerful MomentOne of the most striking ideas Soraya shares is that feminism is fundamentally about decentering men — not out of hatred, but to enable women to live lives rooted in dignity, agency, and autonomy.As Soraya explains:“Simply women seeking to be independent is perceived as hating men… which illustrates the degree to which we’re expected to be extensions of men.” About Soraya ChemalySoraya Chemaly is an award-winning journalist, activist, and author whose work focuses on gender, politics, and power.She is the author of All We Want Is Everything: How We Dismantle Male Supremacy and Rage Becomes Her, and writes widely about the cultural forces shaping women’s lives.Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Guardian, Time, The Atlantic, and The Washington Post, and she writes the Substack newsletter Unmanned, exploring gender, power, and resistance in everyday life.Buy All We Want Is Everything and discover more from Soraya: https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Soraya-Chemaly/100698080Connect With SorayaSubstack: Unmanned: https://substack.com/@sorayachemaly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sorayachemaly/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ragebecomesher/Share Your ThoughtsCONNECT WITH EIMEAR Free Resources and More: https://stan.store/eimearzoneExplore Working With Eimear: Book a Call: https://eimearzone.as.me/breakthrough📱 Instagram: @eimearzonecoach 💻 Website: eimearzone.com 📧 Email: [email protected] Subscribe to Girl, Choose Yourself on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. © 2026 Eimear Zone Coaching. All rights reserved.