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EPISODE · May 15, 2026 · 1H 4M

Ally Lewber Talks Breaking the Cycle, Boundaries & the Bravo Blogger

from Scheananigans with Scheana Shay

This week, Scheana is joined by astrologer, reality TV personality, and fellow cat mom Ally Lewber. The two unpack Ally’s experience filming Netflix’s “Perfect Match” — from the surprising item production confiscated and potential match Jimmy’s “glow-up bangs,” to sharing her most intimate moments on camera and why she's hesitant to consider doing a dating show again. They also dive into the complicated reality of supporting friends caught in toxic relationship cycles, using the recent SLOMW fallout between Taylor Frankie Paul and Mikayla Matthews as a jumping-off point for a surprisingly raw and emotional conversation about boundaries, enabling, and what actually helps someone leave for good. Ally opens up about why she’s now grateful certain moments from her past relationship played out so publicly, the support system that helped her through it, and her honest reaction to seeing headlines about her ex’s baby news. Elsewhere, Scheana and Ally debate open relationships vs. throuples, whether they’d rather know WHEN or HOW they die, and why Brock once referred to Ally as a “Scientologist to the stars.” Plus, Scheana is not here for the Bravo blogger slander — in fact, she’s giving them their flowers this week. Tune in to find out why! Domestic Violence ResourcesNational Domestic Violence Hotline:  https://www.thehotline.org/Peace Over Violence:  https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/Live Your Dream:  https://www.liveyourdream.org/ Follow us: @scheana @scheananigans Guest: @allylewber Purchase your very own copy of the NYT Best-selling book/audiobook MY GOOD SIDE at www.mygoodsidebook.com!Episode Sponsors:Wake up with clearer skin, smoother hair, and cooler sleep. Use code GOODASGOLD for an extra 30% off at blissy.com/GOODASGOLD.Shop at REVOLVE.com/GOODASGOLD and use code GOODASGOLD for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartnerPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week, Scheana is joined by astrologer, reality TV personality, and fellow cat mom Ally Lewber. The two unpack Ally’s experience filming Netflix’s “Perfect Match” — from the surprising item production confiscated and potential match Jimmy’s “glow-up bangs,” to sharing her most intimate moments on camera and why she's hesitant to consider doing a dating show again. They also dive into the complicated reality of supporting friends caught in toxic relationship cycles, using the recent SLOMW fallout between Taylor Frankie Paul and Mikayla Matthews as a jumping-off point for a surprisingly raw and emotional conversation about boundaries, enabling, and what actually helps someone leave for good. Ally opens up about why she’s now grateful certain moments from her past relationship played out so publicly, the support system that helped her through it, and her honest reaction to seeing headlines about her ex’s baby news. Elsewhere, Scheana and Ally debate open relationships vs. throuples, whether they’d rather know WHEN or HOW they die, and why Brock once referred to Ally as a “Scientologist to the stars.” Plus, Scheana is not here for the Bravo blogger slander — in fact, she’s giving them their flowers this week. Tune in to find out why! Domestic Violence ResourcesNational Domestic Violence Hotline:  https://www.thehotline.org/Peace Over Violence:  https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/Live Your Dream:  https://www.liveyourdream.org/ Follow us: @scheana @scheananigans Guest: @allylewber Purchase your very own copy of the NYT Best-selling book/audiobook MY GOOD SIDE at www.mygoodsidebook.com!Episode Sponsors:Wake up with clearer skin, smoother hair, and cooler sleep. Use code GOODASGOLD for an extra 30% off at blissy.com/GOODASGOLD.Shop at REVOLVE.com/GOODASGOLD and use code GOODASGOLD for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartnerPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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This week, Scheana is joined by astrologer, reality TV personality, and fellow cat mom Ally Lewber. The two unpack Ally’s experience filming Netflix’s “Perfect Match” — from the surprising item production confiscated and potential match Jimmy’s...

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