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EPISODE · May 10, 2026 · 33 MIN

Always Putting Yourself Last: Why Am I Always Last on My Own List?

from Aren't Ya Tired Of? Smart Conversations for Living & Working Well · host Patti Johnson & Mark Benton

Send us Fan MailYou show up for everyone else—but are you always at the bottom of your own list?In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…?, Patti and Mark explore the habits and patterns of always putting yourself last—and the toll it takes on you. What looks like helpfulness or dependability can actually be driven by extreme responsibility, guilt, approval-seeking, and the pressure to make everything perfect - often at your own expense.They break down how to recognize it, why it matters, and what to do about it—so you can stop running on empty and start showing up differently.Because if nothing changes, you pay the price.Please subscribe and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check us out on Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to [email protected] or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail You show up for everyone else—but are you always at the bottom of your own list? In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…?, Patti and Mark explore the habits and patterns of always putting yourself last—and the toll it takes on you. What looks like helpfulness or dependability can actually be driven by extreme responsibility, guilt, approval-seeking, and the pressure to make everything perfect - often at your own expense. They break down how to recognize it, why it matters, and...

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