Am I Responsible for Feeling Abused?

"When reminding my partner that he needs to take responsibility for his emotions, and that I can't be blamed for his anger, he responded that it should be the same for me and that he shouldn't be held responsible for my feeling abused, and that I should be responsible for those feelings." This was a question that came in through my Instagram. I answer this question in the episode.Here are the resources I mention in the episode:Free PDF - Lundy Bancroft, "Why Does He Do That" - https://emotionalabusecoach.com/why-does-he-do-that/Link to Book - Lundy Bancroft, "Why Does He Do That" - https://amzn.to/3EhCurhWebsite: www.EmotionalAbuseCoach.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: [email protected]{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Heal: https://emotionalabusecoach.com/relationship-recovery-course/{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner: https://emotionalabusecoach.com/communication/Support the show*Please Note: there is a long intro that explains my services. If you do not want to listen, just fast-forward 5 mins past. This intro will be changed in future recordings to be shorter. I am not paid to record this podcast and it is a free offering. Offering my work is the only way I can sustain the podcast*Join the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy*New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your RelationshipWebsite: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: [email protected]{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse{E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner