Am I the a**hole for telling my girlfriend that I wouldn't make her coffee anymore unless she stops micromanaging me?

This weekly podcast comes to you from Veritas Psychology Partners, Dr. Dan Kessler and Dr. Gayle MacBride. Your host selects a conversation from the internet forums that neither psychology has heard or read before, and they give their unrehearsed, unvarnished opinions--essentially answering the question, "just who is the a**hole here?" The host brings in feedback from internet commentors to round out the discussion, and we close out each episode with a bonus conversation about any number of things! Stay tuned through the end to find out!Today Gayle and Dan mentioned a couple of things during the podcast:--4 horsemen handout: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vS6gx83cNN6ONNjbmhrDaur0i0fPKkqW/view?usp=sharing--Dr. Gayle MacBride’s TikTok about "not buts": https://www.tiktok.com/@drgmacbride/video/7308425976701046059--and Michael mentions "FANBOYS": https://www.shsu.edu/centers/academic-success-center/writing/handouts/loc/punctuation/Commas.pdf--Dr. Gayle MacBride mentions the "Region-Beta Paradox", here's perhaps the first article that discusses it: ⁠https://web.archive.org/web/20160304110109/http://www.scn.ucla.edu/pdf/PeculiarLongevity.pdf⁠⁠In this episode, the question is: "Am I the a**hole for telling my girlfriend that I wouldn't make her coffee anymore unless she stops micromanaging me?"And, if you had an experience with the "Region-Beta Paradox", or have another thought to share or question for us, reach out via our mailbag: https://www.veritasviews.com/contactAnd if you'd like to schedule an appointment with either of our psychologists, visit: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.veritaspp.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ Otherwise, our team can be found at:Dr. Dan Kessler at: ⁠⁠⁠@drdankessler⁠⁠⁠Dr. Gayle MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠@drgmacbride⁠⁠⁠Kelley Buttrick at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://kbvoiceovers.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Michael MacBride at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.michaelmacbride.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks for listening and/or watching!